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[–]CJLez 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I'm sorry you lost your friend. Some people peak very, very slowly and she might come around in the future.

Thank you for standing up for lesbians though. I've seen the same argument so many times that if you can use a strap-on or dildo or vibrator you can use a dick, and it is now also becomming popular to tell gay men that if they can enjoy a dick they can enjoy a FTM with a strap on.

Even leaving aside the homophobia of denying same-sex attraction this ignores the facts that a) penises feel and function nothing like sex toys, b) some lesbians who enjoy penetrative sex only enjoy it with sex toys that look deliberatly nothing like penises and get turned off by the ones that do, c) some lesbians don't enjoy sex toys at all and d) some lesbians don't enjoy penetration at all.

[–]powpowpowpow 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Its very dismissive to say that a strap on is the same as a penis. They talk about not reducing people to their genitals but they are reducing men to a dick when they say a strap on is equivalent to it because it has the same shape more or less.

Sex comes in a package, you don't have sex with a woman just bc she has a vagina, its the whole package, who she is, if you have chemestry with her, if you feel comfortable with her... and the same goes when you want to have sex with a man.

They clearly have little to no grasp on how humans work and how attraction works and now want to impose on us their distorted views on it.