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[–]venecia 38 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 0 fun39 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

She is likely one of the rare types that pass 100% and earned her pronouns. That used to be how it worked. You got called ''ma'am'' and ''she'' when that is what people saw when they looked at you. OR, that you people started to call you when you revealed yourself to be a solid, good friend, and they adapted to make you feel better. Before the mass gaslighting began and we owed this emotional labor to strangers.