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QT: Why do you care so much if other people believe your chosen "identities"?

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Well, thank you, I sort of suspected but thought I'd share as a QT substitute 😅

That said, it almost seems like it's an issue about being reminded of one's reality, having a lack of control, or maybe both. For some, perhaps transition is an expression of someone trying to control their life, or something/someone in their life, and every facet of the whole experience is about some attempt at control of some kind. One really would have control over their transition up to the point of having to interact with others, which is where the problem seems to be for some people.

And I do believe more and more that a root issue shared by everyone who does transition, and why there are more and more people who are doing so or being subjected to medical, legal, social and psychological interventions in the name of identity affirmation, is an intolerance to one's reality, or just reality itself. Transition can provide an escape of sorts from reality, and not having one's identity affirmed brings people back to a reality that they find intolerable. I'm not sure if that's accurate, maybe that's just extrapolating or projecting from my own experience, but I suspect it to be at least somewhat true for others where identity would matter (excluding people I think don't really care for themselves, and rather just want to be supportive to those who do)

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Well, you were the only who answered me, so thanks!

Yes, I think the issue lies in that they are trying to escape reality, but other people don't following the official script reminds them of it. So, they have decided they need to control other people thoughts in order to keep escaping it. There were plenty of people who were willing to tell some polite lies at the begining, likely thinking that it will end there. However, they kept making more and more demands and now even some people who were fine in geting along with this are getting tired of it. The more TRA keep pushing their demands, the more other people will pushback, something than TRA will interpret as a rise in "transphobia" and they will make even more demands and so on and so on. And well, this is going to sound harsh, but if so many people have a problem with your behaviour, maybe it's time to ask yourself if you aren't the one with the problem.