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[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers 2 insightful - 6 fun2 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

My sexual orientation is not universal at all. Some people are not attracted to trans people and that's OK. We can't control who we are attracted to. I don't agree not disclosing your birth sex is rape though. For one, many GC people claim they can tell apart neo-genitals from natural genitals, So they will likely realize the partner is trans anyway before sex. 2nd, if you were already attracted to the person and had sex with them, why does finding out they 're trans afterward make you no longer attracted to them. I do think trans people should disclose, for their safety and for the sake of their partner, especially for long term relationships and not just casual sex. To some people, biological sex is important, especially if they want to have their own children. But I don't necessarily consider being attracted to trans people who share the gender you're attracted to bisexual. I consider a cis man and passing trans woman couple a straight couple. I consider a cis woman and passing trans woman couple a lesbian couple.