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[–]kwallio 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think this is a men writing women issue, men imagine women to do all sorts of stupid shit that women basically don't do, or don't do when men aren't around, and then men treating these male fantasies as reality.

Women are definitely socialized to imagine themselves as an object, but I doubt except for a very few women don't get much of a sexual thrill out of it. To me the idea of putting on a feminine appearance and acting "sexy" is just another chore, like cleaning the kitchen or going grocery shopping or something.