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You mean feminine middle aged married women never become lesbians and never adopt a butch lifestyle?

Again: women do not become lesbians. They are or are not lesbians.

Whether they realize or accept or act on or come out or adopt/don't adopt a given social presentation associated with lesbians in any given society or subculture is secondary to their innate sexual orientation/attraction, which is the definitive qualifier of being a lesbian.