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[–]worried19[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

For me, I have not seen people in public life who "match" in terms of gender. There are masculine women who are public figures, but no one I could point to and say is a good representation of who I am. I feel like I'm on my own in that department. I never expect to see women who look like me or present or feel as I do.

[–]theory_of_thisan actual straight crossdresser 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

But do you see them elsewhere? Like online?

[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know. A lot of women like me are on the gender train. Those who aren't mostly don't seem to be as masculine as I am. And the ones who are extremely masculine are all lesbian, which is cool, but I can't understand their full life experience. If I had to point to a public figure who sort of resembles me in appearance and mannerisms, I'd say Abby Wambach.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJr_GVeKwAY