GC: Is sexual attraction only based on genitals, or is there more to sexual attraction (e.g. attraction to secondary sexual characteristics, "femininity", "masculinity", etc)?

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[–]MarkTwainiac 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

The only thing that may be seen as borderline gay is that I like dicks, but even so those dicks are on feminine bodies and they just tend to look more feminine than the average penis but yeah, the dick is really the only difference between femboys and women that's actually significant enough for me to acknowledge the arguments against.

LOL. This person - who then goes on absurdly to compare penises to bayonets, making me think fondly of the Beatles song, Happiness is A Warm Gun - is an asshat who is in denial and/or a liar. https://youtu.be/nIR6AAjEg5U

Also, what is "TQ"?

[–]Not_a_celebrity[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Thanks for the link! It's my first time listening to the beatles. Why did it make you think of that song? Is there a reason? Is it because of the part that says "I need a fix 'cause I'm going down. Down to the pits that I left uptown" and the user comparing penises to bayonets is also going down to the pits?

TQ is abbreviation for "trans and queer". The two letters they added to LGB, and made up "LGBTQ+". Those first few arguments are made by a "trans man", the second few by someone that believes in "gender identity", so I wrote TQ (Q are queers, they believe in 'gender identity' and are where 'queer theory' came from, etc)

[–]MarkTwainiac 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I know what what the T and Q stand for individually, as well as what QT and all the rest mean, coz I think I've been around these topics for a whole lot longer than you, LOL.

What I didn't know, and all I asked you to explain, is what you meant by TQ, which to me always looks like mistyping of QT. I still don't think your acronym is accurate, or consistent with the rest of the acronyms you've cited. It seems to me that the correct acronym for "trans and queer" would be T&Q or TAQ. But thanks for the info.

As for Happiness Is A Warm Gun, you're kidding, right?

It can't possibly be news to you or anyone else that guns and most other weapons males have invented and fetishized during the long course of human history are all phallic symbols. You must know know the word "vagina" means sheath, and that a sheath is a covering for a sword or blade, and that guns are the modern replacement for previous weapons such as swords, spears and arrows.

Happiness Is A Warm Gun, which John Lennon was inspired to write after seeing a headline in the American Rifleman magazine in 1968, is full of sexual innuendo - male heterosexual innuendo. It includes lines in which the male singer brags that a woman called "mother superior" (one of Lennon's pet names for Yoko Ono) "jumped the gun," in other words (finally) had sex with him; a line describing the man's sense of wellbeing and safety when he's holding said woman in his arms and fingering her clitoris; and the momentary bliss and utter invincibility he and other heterosexual men feel after they've shot a wad in sexual congress with a woman (as opposed to in solitary masturbation).

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Mother Superior jumped the gun

Happiness is a warm gun (bang, bang, shoot, shoot)

Happiness is a warm gun, momma (bang, bang, shoot, shoot)

When I hold you in my arms (ooh, oh, yeah)

And I feel my finger on your trigger (ooh, oh, yeah)

I know nobody can do me no harm (ooh, oh, yeah)

Because

Happiness is a warm gun, yes it is (bang, bang, shoot, shoot)

Happiness is a warm, yes it is, gun (happiness, bang, bang, shoot, shoot)

Well, don't you know that happiness is a warm gun momma?

(Happiness is a warm gun, yeah)

Much of the Beatles' music, especially the early work, is an expression and celebration of the enormous attraction to and often head-over-heels love heterosexual boys and men of their generation felt for girls and women If you want to understand male heterosexuality, I suggest checking out some other Beatles songs, such as these, which I already have on file in a folder listing male love songs about women from the the 1950s through the 90s.

Beatles hits from 1963: And I Love Her" https://youtu.be/5tc0gLSSU1M "All My Loving" https://youtu.be/TSpiwK5fig0 “Do You Want to Know A Secret” https://youtu.be/uRQ7ecvU56k “Till There Was You” https://youtu.be/SHAqAO7w8M8 “This Boy” https://youtu.be/VhuU8KDLdO4 “PS I Love You” https://youtu.be/MA5DkiVKSlM “Words of Love” https://youtu.be/r5nARZKS-AY “When I Saw Her Standing There” https://youtu.be/oxwAB3SECtc

Beatles hits from 1964: “I Want to Hold Your Hand” https://youtu.be/jenWdylTtzs “She Loves You” https://youtu.be/nGbWU8S3vzs “I’m Happy Just to Dance With You" https://youtu.be/B7X1oUfa8uE “If I Fell” https://youtu.be/F_80s6S_7Vw “And I Love Her” https://youtu.be/5tc0gLSSU1M “Can’t Buy Me Love” https://youtu.be/srwxJUXPHvE “Tell Me Why” https://youtu.be/GVub1QCUCGc “No Reply” https://youtu.be/YgFo9STa70E “I Feel Fine” https://youtu.be/WrAV5EVI4tU

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

<3 early Beatles

My mother introduced me to them and we even got to see Paul McCartney a few years ago. It’s was so special... They wrote so many amazing love songs.

[–]MarkTwainiac 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I was one of the thousands of screaming girls at the Beatles concert at Shea Stadium in 1965 when I was 10.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh wow, I can’t imagine how incredible that must have been. ❤️

[–]MarkTwainiac 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Couldn't hear much of the Beatles, but the whole experience was very eye-opening. Being a member of the frenzied, screaming crowd of 50,000 girls and young women was much like like partaking in a collective female orgasm. I'm not the only one to have made a connection between Beatlemania and the rise of the women's liberation movement soon after.