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[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

No bans, apparently nothing masks said is out of line. Taking my leave from the community after mod decision.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Wow. I’m not surprised. Disappointed but not surprised.

Insensitivity towards rape victims, either hypothetical or real is okay? Telling a victim they are morally obligated to take care of someone who was actively harming and violating them is okay? That’s fucking insane and the mods should be ashamed.

Mods- at the very least Masks should have to fucking apologize or you should say something to address why it’s acceptable.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mods- you say “no misogyny” but allow males to reduce females to stereotypes and outward appearance every day?

You say no misgendering, but allow QT to call us “cis” knowing we hate it?

You say not to use the word “terf” and tell us to edit when we say “tim/tif” yet “terf” is used pretty often here lately?

You say no rape apologia, but let someone try to guilt rape victims over being unwilling to come to the aid of the person who raped them?

Can you explain?

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Nothing much to be done apparently. Masks wasn’t out of line. Dunno if it’s just porcelains call or all the mods but yeah. Either way, I’m not hanging out anywhere where men can say this sort of thing unchallenged or even supported.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don’t blame you. I asked them to address why but it’s probably best to just leave/take a break as well. Truly disgusting.

It’s terrifying that someone who thinks they’re a woman can say shit like that, and also tell us that they’re a safe person who won’t cause harm out in the real world. The hatred masks shows for females on every post was already alarming. Now I don’t know that I could interact with them at all and the fact that the mods think what was said is okay makes me worry that none of them are “safe” to be around. I get if they think it’s not ban worthy, but they should have at least addressed it somehow. They always say it’s just a small amount of trans people and tras who think this way, but they always show that’s not the case. Even GB’s comments show how easily they dismiss violence if it comes from the trans side.

Yeah I need a break, too.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

No point trying to salvage a community already overrun with misogyny. I’m going back to ovarit. GB gets to call people terfs and bigots and a man can tell me I’m amoral for how I act after being raped.

Can’t trust the particular mod who made this call to ever make a call in the interests of women after this, either. Here’s hoping we can find somewhere on the internet where it’a not men-first.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ll have to make a new ovarit account! See you there!