You should try to write something that makes sense and is cogent before posting it. You typed a rant using words that might seem big or official to you, but it is really just gibberish. Try again.

Here's an example: "It is said men are taller", no it is not said. What difference would it make if it is said? Idiots say things all the time. We should not waste our time on what "is said", even on SaidIt. Men do tend to be taller, it does not need to be said: it just is.

You use a phrase, "gender essentialism" but I have never heard that before. Are you creating your own term as a play on biological essentialism? That phrase originated as a way of describing the sexist notions that women are just not as smart or women are naturally nurturing or that women are more emotional, and all sorts of assumed behaviors that may be adaptations by some or most women to the social roles they are forced into and the term biological essentialism describes when people have presented those behaviors as somehow a result of biology not socialization. Gender ideology and gender identity rely heavily, entirely really, on biological essentialism claiming there is something innate about the sexes that is mimiced by an innate gender identity. It is just a toxic mimic ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v--Ry7lGcZI ) built on sexist stereotypes.

Also, what do you mean by "innate"? Innate as used in this gender-bullshit refers to the idea that in spite of having fully functioning reproductive organs there is something "innate" in some individuals that makes their "gender" the opposite of their sex. Why this innate trait called gender is somehow sexed and must use the vocabulary that describes a sexed reality and must use the fucking bathrooms of a sexed reality makes no sense and is just creeps being creepy.

Come back when you make sense.
(Edited for spelling and punctuation and to fill out a paragraph and add a link)