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[–]DistantGlimmer 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I would like for the category "transwomen" and "transmen" to come into wide use and be seen as a separate sex category. I think we should recognize the unique experience of transsexual while still recognizing the fact that actually changing sex is impossible. If transwomen could just be accepted as transwomen and be allowed to be as gender non-conforming as they want and if that becomes destigmatized by society I think it actually helps to move towards our wider goals of gender abolition. I certainly would not force or even encourage people to detransition unless it is something they really want to do. My understanding of it is that most transsexuals did not used to believe they actually changed sex and were just transitioning to try to cope with dysphoria so why can't we go back to that?

The issue of ID is a difficult one though. I realize it makes it easier for you to have your desired sex on your ID but I still consider it dishonest and wrong. Perhaps a solution would be just lessening the number of times people have to show ID with their sex on it in casual situations?

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

My understanding of it is that most transsexuals did not used to believe they actually changed sex and were just transitioning to try to cope with dysphoria so why can't we go back to that?

I really wish we could. Maybe that will happen at some point. It was definitely better I feel like. It all went wrong when people starting saying “cis”.

Perhaps a solution would be just lessening the number of times people have to show ID with their sex on it in casual situations?

I feel like that would help. I understand why GC is against it and I know it’s not reality, even if it does make things easier.

[–]divingrightintowork 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It all went wrong when people starting saying “cis”.

When did you start noticing that being a "thing" ? I have vague inexplicit memories of when these things started happening - i could probably search my social media for an idea though.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe the late 00s? I wasn’t really in any communities so maybe it was earlier other places. I’d really have to look back to know exactly.