Context is everything. Don't want to date women over 35 because you're 30? Fine, seems reasonable enough, she might not share your interests or be at the same life stage as you. Don't want to date women over 35 because you're 40 and you think you can carry on dating 21 year olds indefinitely? You're probably a dick all women should steer clear of anyway. Don't want to date women over 35 because you're in your mid 60's and feel like you're bored of your wife so you'll go trying to replace her with a younger model? Get a grip. Meet someone who shares values and interests with you, in real life, in good faith. Get off tinder, get some hobbies that let you interact with the people that you might be romantically interested in.