I’m seen as the kind of guy who’s most likely to be a stalker

submitted by blackpilllife from self.AskSaidIt

I have quit stalking and I actually feel really guilty about my worst stalking cases. People see as the guy who’s more likely to be a stalker due to how I’m seen as a socially incompetent guy trying to get the girl that doesn’t like me. People in social groups have even labeled me as the guy who’s stalking her in the past when I’ve brought up girls I’ve had crushes on. The way in which people think it’s easy to get away with ripping me off doesn’t help either. I remember bringing up lady’s i like to some guy in a social group I used to be in and he told me not to stalk like he had to tell me that as he saw me as the kind of guy with the most potential to stalk

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[–]ActuallyNot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have quit stalking and I actually feel really guilty about my worst stalking cases.

Yes.

People see as the guy who’s more likely to be a stalker due to how I’m seen as a socially incompetent guy trying to get the girl that doesn’t like me.

Judging from the sentence before, they appear to be correct.

[–]Mcheetah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I like to go to posts that have no comments on them and leave them something so they don't feel neglected. So all I can say is this:

Being an ugly dude, I've gotten the same treatment. All ugly men who aren't tall/rich, do. All you can do is stop caring and live your life, cause these people don't control you.

[–]blackpilllife[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Your right they don’t control me and if they want to make fun of me for the chance I could be the worst I won’t care because they’re not worth my attention

[–]Mcheetah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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[–]Req 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thats a reputation that is not likley to fade quickly.

They might not bring it up as much if you get yourself a girl then they wont have to be as concerned with you following others if you got one at home waiting for you, ya know.

Last ditch option if its real bad is to get new friends and start off of a good foot. Granted its hard to re-start like that. not recommended, try first suggestion.