When learning about entering a peaceful state of mind you end up learning that the desire for what you don’t have is part of the suffering. When the desire is eliminated the suffering goes away. I used to have a strong desire to get a girlfriend and then I just gave up on trying to get a girlfriend because I learned that who people like is beyond my control the black pill theory helped with how I stopped trying to get a girlfriend.
My sexual attraction to ladys made me miserable and just brought out the worst in me because I got so insecure and miserable over failing to get what I wanted to get ( relationships ) this is why I think it would be easier if I was Asexual as I never would have wasted so much time trying to get what I can’t get if I where Asexual. They would also be the additional effect of not being so miserable and insecure about trying to get what I can’t get.
Being a straight guy has brought me to much trouble in life I’ve made my self easy to use for lady’s that never liked me I’ve found my self in a position where I stalked this lady. I never would have found my self doing this if I were Asexual I can tell you my bank balance would be much bigger if I were Asexual because I would not have wasted so much money on hookers. The sex is great and I’m thankfull prostitution is legal in Australia. The point of this post is that it I’m on the failing side of men who has had to many problems with being a straight guy due to my biggest weekness so that’s why i say it would be so much easier if I where Asexual ( someone with no sex attraction to anyone )
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