That's not true, and your assertions are horribly unkind to the extent that it even be called brainwashing to try to force people to "conform their perceptions to reality." Reality is not the same for any two people. Who do you think you are to decide what reality should be for ANYBODY? That itself is a huge symptom of delusion, the belief that only YOU know what's best for everybody and only YOU know what is reality. You are wrong about that. I can safely say, the "reality" you think you know is not the reality that really exists. KINDNESS means, you treat others as you want to be treated - something that never happens here on these forums, by the way.