That's barely different. It's better to tame your lust so you think and act clearly, with your head and heart, not your balls. You do not have to find a lover and get married just because everyone else is doing it.

I'd steer clear of porn, since it degrades people and reduces them to sex objects. But marriage and even relationships are a commitment, one most follow the herd into without thinking. I don't see much good in either. And you know you're allowed to be friends with and love someone who isn't a SO, not everything in life has to be about sex. I don't care what nature intends, screw nature.

Idk, maybe I don't understand shit because for some reason all my fantasies revolve around long-term bondage instead of sex.