Boba liberals and self hating asiansOC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 16 hours ago by secondaryburner_acct

[–]Icy-Account-7084 41 points 13 hours ago the “white liberal AF” you’re describing is genuinely my two sisters. Even tho i self identity as liberal, it’s always just be white for their dating lives.

[–]AcanthisittaTiny7029 -17 points 13 hours ago I'm sorry to hear this- Keep your head up though...try to love them "where they are"...in this effort, perhaps you can be the AM example they need to reconsider the exclusionary personal choices they've been living so they will see that there are fantastic AM who are far better suited to be their partners than any WM. . .(coming from a place of empathy myself--I want to see my Asian brothers and sisters succeed and have the fullness of equity in their lives. . .this is unattainable thru the lens of the WMAF dichotomy. . .no one receives justice from this)

[–]Hot-Eagle-8175 16 points 12 hours ago Nah bro they're lost.

[–]AcanthisittaTiny7029 -9 points 11 hours ago I wouldn't disagree, in fact, I'd probably have my own personal disregard for them as fully autonomous individuals. However, to forever dismiss them (to include both sides of this coin, the AF {and} the WM) would be to give up hope for the justice and equity that the Asian diaspora dignantly deserves. People can change; albeit, (especially after perpetual patterns of exploitation) unlikely, everyone is deserving of forgiveness and a hope to respect themselves and others to the fullness of their humanity. Where both his sisters are currently, of course, this cannot be. Perhaps the humility they need to deface their own pride and internalized selfishness is the love and empathy from a fellow Asian brother (either figuratively or their biological sibling) to change the narrative towards a direction of genuine Asian unity and pride- Peace, brother

[–]Hot-Eagle-8175 9 points 9 hours ago Experience taught me that people don't change. And even if they did, I don't see why we should accept them unless they come back groveling on their own.

[–]matchalover04 2 points 42 minutes ago bro the guy you're talking to is a white man that has a history of dating and objectifying asian women and he's married to a white woman. he alsooo has been having affairs with asian women on reddit or is attempting to while being married with two little daughters. he's batshit crazy

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Upset by lack of focus on anti-EAST asian racism in politicsOC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 16 hours ago by secondaryburner_acct

[–]UltraMisogyninstinct 18 points 12 hours ago South Asians never had it bad, especially in comparison to east Asians. The US alone has an extensive list of inhumane policies towards east asians. There hasn't been any political rifts towards south Asians worth mentioning And now that immigration from east asia is drying up, south Asians are already the largest Asian ethnic groups in the US too. They will be gaining more opportunities for representation in positions of power while avoiding political scrutiny. They have the privilege of not facing the brunt of a cold war with the west as well as having the backing of domestic liberal movements for being brown. There's also no conflict of interest so they don't have to sell out just to make it. On the contrary, there's an ongoing McCarthyist witch hunt for Chinese people where you're either a yes boy or you're a "CCP spy" Saying south Asians have it "worse" than east Asians is so ludicrous that it's offensive. It's also the reason why removing all my south asian social circles was one of the best decisions I've ever made for my social life

[–]Legitimate-Gears -2 points 9 hours ago

South Asians never had it bad, especially in comparison to east Asians.

I mean they did have it bad for some years after 2001. I don't think the west gave them any benefit of the doubt just like what's happening to us now. They don't have it worse, but they definitely know what it's like.

Nothing good ever comes from appointing ass-kissing f&gg0ts associated with arcPOOCEL.