aznidentity mod behavior exposed #142: r/ asianamerican schizoid LU BITCH AlasKKKUNT91 an example of why aiNCELs will never be "Pro-AsIANn"

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-17T23:22:51+00:00

Do your parents deny racial trama you experienced? by B_Wing_83 in asianamerican

[–]Alaskan91 2 points 2 hours ago Bc Asians r taught to assimilate and not to rebel .other minorities don't blame themselves they blame.society for racism Asian culture has issues

The "moD" of aiNCELs people. Fucking r/ aa LU BITCH who has no other purpose in life other than ch1mping at Asians every second of each day. Fucking street-shitter head mod, worthless cancer simp f&gg0t mods, 24/7 censorship, and shilling of (((western politicians))). Long dead KUCKTUREMedia and "TwiTTer ACtivISM". Frontpage is a goddamn joke. R/ aiNCELS was not "pro-Asian" and never fucking will be.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-17T23:01:03+00:00

Steve Harvey - unapologetically racist by BeerNinjaEsq in AsianMasculinity

[–]throwmiamivelvet -15 points an hour ago We are looking at 8 year old articles because??? We are grasping straws?

Should I try to help a girl im interested in get a job in my company( we wont be working together)? by Altruistic_Point_834 in AsianMasculinity

[–]throwmiamivelvet -3 points 2 hours ago OP is a loser and gives Asian guys a bad rep.. forget about Hollywood. People just need to look at him as a bad example

[–]throwmiamivelvet 2 points 2 hours ago There's nothing wrong with helping people. But helping people with ulterior motive sounds like a simp. You need to ask yourself whether you're helping her because you really want to help her or because you want something in return if the latter then you are simp

This f&gg0t's account has absolutely nothing of worth and yet the worthless Hong KUCKER mods still keep him on the sub. Anyone associated with arcPOOCEL is an guaranteed insidious eunuch f&gg0t.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-17T22:50:26+00:00

Alot of the men here need to understand how much Asian women get harrassed on the streets. Please help intervene!OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 1 day ago by Big-Coconut-Woman

[–]Double-Raisin-4323 101 points 1 day ago Lmao, even in a harassment post you gotta do the regular WM servicing without fail. Truly hopeless for AF.

[–]Full_Strength_3891 86 points 1 day ago 100%. And 39 upvotes so far from AMAF simps getting cucked as she boasts about getting hit on by White male professional models. (She already edited that part out). That's like praising an Asian woman while she kisses a random White guy right in front of your face. Those AM are fucking hopeless as well.

[–]PickleInTheSun 44 points 23 hours ago Cucked simps in here for sure. To people sympathizing with OP, read her post again. She’s basically relegating you into the “you look like my brother” role. She’s saying that Asian guys need to protect her from unwanted advices without any of the benefits of a male/female relationship, and Asian guys are “safe” (like a brother). Wake the fuck up.

[–]shinjiii_ikari 0 points 5 hours ago How are you going to act like you care about Asian men’s issues then call out Indian men specifically for something that has nothing to do with their race? Did you forget Indian men are Asian men too? You’re Asian too right? You should know what harmful stereotypes feel like.

[–]magicalbird 98 points 1 day ago I agree but the topic feels more relevant for aznidentity where Asian unity is more encouraged. This subreddit focuses on Asian male issues. Many other Asian subreddits do not welcome Asian male struggles so why are we suddenly having to hear Asian female topics here?

[–]Aureolater -14 points 1 day ago Why not both subs? Asian women's suffering at the hands of non-Asian men is definitely a masculinity issue. Asian women get this treatment because non-Asian men think they won't be rebuffed by their fathers and brothers. If you don't want to fight for them, do it for yourself.

[–]magicalbird 60 points 1 day ago No. This subreddit always had more polarizing views when it came to that misguided Asian unity. A lot of Asian women would gladly throw us under the bus if it meant a white guy looked at them more.

[–]Aureolater -11 points 1 day ago

A lot of Asian women would gladly throw us under the bus if it meant a white guy looked at them more.

I actually agree with you there. But you don't have to fight for them, you're fighting for yourself. My one sister may be a complete slag but I'm not going to let anyone disrespect her because she's family, and for the sake of my other two sisters who aren't slags. (Theoretically, I don't have three sisters). If someone disrespects the slag sister, they're still disrespecting me and my family. No one stands alone. The fact that so many of us go it alone is why we get challenged and defeated so often. It also explains the slags and the Asian women throwing us under the bus.

[–]magicalbird 18 points 1 day ago Then that’s a discussion about family which is different than just random females that OP is stating. A lot of women want Asian men only for the benefits like protection and harmony while sleeping around with non-Asian men. Life is that competitive and in my opinion it’s up to each individual to make sure surrounding people are safe. The point is that these topics are on a predominantly Asian male subreddit.

[–]Prize_Ganache_8138 8 points 17 hours ago Only someone so entitled with her head so far up her own ass, does she think she deserves to hijack the only public space online for Asian male-specific issues.

I also did not want to detract from the focus on men's issue's here in the sub. I just thought you guys might be interested to hear this perspective.

Go fuck yourself.

[–]owlficus -11 points 1 day ago Thank you for this post- a lot of women think it’s just white men who have the Asian fetish, and they turn a blind, naive eye to black and hispanic guys like they’re automatically safe. Also I wanted to say- white women get harassed a lot, but for very different reasons, and I would argue Asian women have it a lot worse. With white women the guys are just trying to hook up- with Asian women the guys just want to hook up too, BUT there’s the added layer of total objectification and disrespect, thinking that you’re submissive and will do whatever they want (in bed and out). White women don’t face this. There’s also an added motivation/desperation from these guys for Asian women because you’re seen as rarer, so these guys will try hard to sleep with any Asian girl they see (this doesn’t happen with white girls)- your friend who got hit on might be pretty, but trust me that guy also hit on some not pretty Asian girls.

And we have the aiNCEL F&gg0ts owlcockroach and Aureoretard jizzing to "MuH GoDLY LadEEeEEEEEEEeEE". Raging poocel f&gg0t 'shinjiii_ikari' as well. The exact type of shit that happens when cancer simp f&gs like INCELnem are made mods. Lu, xm, and simp fggit galore while any progress of the sub is shitted away.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-16T05:45:51+00:00

Ask AIAdvice on how something could be viewed (self.aznidentity)

submitted 12 hours ago by McMeMeorMcScream

Imma keep this brief. If I'm wrong/offend I anyone, sorry. I'm a white guy, work in a diverse restaurant. I normally have to wear a beard net. I have 2 of those neck gaiter things that started popping off during covid. One is of Japanese design. I just now realized you can't add images on this sub. but it's a white background, with a red sun, and a black gate (reminds me of something during the shogun time), then the samething repeated but down the mask a bit. In this restaurant, there is a group of outsourced food service guys that are only, from I have seen, of Asian heritage. Normally, I never even have to talk to them, and when I do it's a quick conversation (there's a bit of a language barrier, and I don't like getting behind to much). I guess what I'm asking is, do you think it, my mask, could be considered offensive? I've studied enough history/current events to know that some people don't have the best feelings toward Japan, but I don't wanna wear a beard net. I don't wanna get in trouble or piss anyone off either. Also, important to note, the mask has a clear difference from the flag of the rising sun, and there is no references to imperial Japan, the then emperor, or any other govt/military leader (like Tojo for example, he wasn't the emperor, but still had a considerable amount of power)

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] an hour ago I doubt anyone would think twice about the torii + sun pattern, especially if it's a neck gaiter and not a headband.

And of course it is this waste of fucking life eunuch who let the xm in. R/ aiNCELs was never about being "Pro-AsiaN" and never fucking will.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-13T07:32:56+00:00

So proud of being East AsianOC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 14 hours ago by MadeInChina6999

[–]v7g7lantt 8 points 9 hours ago This is a post I'd like to read. Not men complaining about Asian female fetish in foreigners and Asian men not being represented.

[–]Detroitpunjabi_ -15 points 8 hours ago East Asian women love Indian men beta

[–]v7g7lantt 11 points 8 hours ago No offence but Indian men are not women's fantasy in general. Every white girl I've known in college told me how creepy and stalkerish they are.

[–]Detroitpunjabi_ -14 points 8 hours ago every Asian girl in collleges and school try’s Indian meat even in most western countries IMAF IS MUCH MORE COMMON CHEENKY BOY

[–]Excellent-Ad5594 5 points 5 hours ago As an indian dude, we dont claim this disgusting incel goblin

[–]v7g7lantt 4 points 4 hours ago According to all the dating app data, Indians are the least desired by women of all races. So you can pretend women want you, but I will bet you don't get any women.

Exactly the fucking reason why these cancerous simp F&GG0TS should never be allowed near any mod board. Lus and xm infestation. Creeper currycels considered "AsiAN".

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-13T07:22:21+00:00

Is asian identity compatible to European nationalities? by yellowlightsab in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 12 hours ago Cringe AF.

Experienced anti-Asian bias during a job interview today — feeling disturbed. by pearlstonerite in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 12 hours ago Why not help disadvantaged Asian students???? Go interview in central valley of California where alot of Hmong, Laotians, are. It's way less dangerous than being stabbed and raped by east coast inner city kids (I seen this myself decades ago). They will really appreciate another Asian face as a teacher and the students are pretty community minded. And parts of the central valley in California are similar to the Midwest.

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 12 hours ago I heard a female teacher (clueless white woman). Get raped at my school after class one day. Yes. Raped. I spent one year in that district and that was enough. The OP is feeling offended, but it's bc she doesn't even know how bad it could have been.

[–]Alaskan91 12 hours ago They did that on the west coast too. Knives of all kinds got snuck on to campuses. Everybody was stabbing each other! It's been decades and I am still traumatized..

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 12 hours ago I had the misfortune of going to an inner city school for 1 grade year and the stuff you see is not even close to kosher. Stabbings, stabbing the teacher, stabbing the janitor, stabbing each other, throwing chairs at teachers, jumping teachers, esp female ones, and beating them up, they even attempted to rape a teacher and succeded. U honestly need to know how to handle craziness. They weren't wrong. I heard a white petite female teacher get raped in an empty storage room, and didn't even know until after what the noise was about. I'm still traumatized from it. The school covered it up nicely. If I ever tell you which district, you wouldn't be shocked. Luckily my parents switched schools for me a year later and everything was better after. I literally hid in the bathrooms at lunch.the whole year. It was that bad. The trauma was a motivating factor for me.to never be poor and end up in the situation ever again. Whenever ppl tell me how awesome and historical that city is, I literally want to slap some sense into them. Honestly, it's for the best. Life is too short to deal with that. You are only offended bc you don't know what you could have gotten yourself in. Yes, they displayed ingroup preference. this shouldn't be a shock. Every minority has in group preference but Asians. It's why Asian tribes r weak and the women flee. But in this case, it is for the best.

'succeded'. Absolute fucking tard STILL on the aiNCELs mod board. No fucking chance in hell aiNCELS will ever be "pro-Asian' when an ANTI-ASIAN Lu Bitch is a mod on there.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-11T06:19:29+00:00

Why Asian men are better than white guys in relationshipsOC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 14 hours ago by unsettledgradient

[–]TestingBlocc 33 points 10 hours ago I literally tell my girl I love her everyday. This is not a race thing but rather an individual thing. A common aspect of Asian women (and in a broader aspect, all women) is that they love to make blanket statements about men based off the men they chose to date.

[–]el-art-seam 12 points 8 hours ago Dates 3 white guys and breaks up with them recently. Dates one XM that didn’t work out in high school. Now she’ll say: Avoid XM. You don’t want to date them- they all are x- how do I know? I dated ONE. I know. What? Avoid WM? Why are you generalizing? No that’s just Cody, Josh, and Billy being assholes.

[–]Immediate_Ad1835[🍰] -1 points 5 hours ago And men don’t do the same? All human beings do this no matter to some extent what gender or race, it’s part of who we are. People also have preferences, to each their own

[–]Hunting-4-Answers 5 points 3 hours ago No, men do not do the same. An AM who dates WF, LF and BFs is usually still open to AFs, even if that AF cheats on him with her white coworker.

[–]Immediate_Ad1835[🍰] -4 points 3 hours ago From the vast majority of comments I’ve seen in this sub, most AM call out AF, calling them Lus and other names. May not be the case outside this sub for AMAF but holy crap the amount of AM hate towards AF in here is insane

Almost always the reason why these kind of subs turn to shit. "mUH HoLY LAdEEee REEEEEEEeeeeeeeEEEeEEEEEEEeeeEe". Then comes the post restrictions and influx of cucked pmaf porno collecting f&gs like the one above.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-11T06:10:35+00:00

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | April 07, 2024OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 4 days ago by AutoModerator

[–]broadnoodles 10 points 3 days ago David Chang bringing out the Lu's.. 😂😂

[–]throwmiamivelvet -1 points 11 hours ago I just find it despitable that some fat ugly ass Korean guy is trying to monopolize a CHINESE cooking condiment. He can't even cook worth shit, ever saw his Netflix live show? You guys need to stop grasping straw on your AF hate and realize that it has nothing to do with them.

[–]ElimDegens 1 point 27 minutes ago

You guys need to stop grasping straw on your AF hate

you need to stop grasping straws on your AM hate, love to tear down a brother don't you? find me one asian guy like him and I can find 10 white guys tenfold more unscrupulous than he is

[–]throwmiamivelvet 0 points 9 minutes ago Another whataboutsm argument. How about focus on the issue which is a Korean guy trying to capitalize and cancel Chinese ingredient name which has been used for decades.

Absolutely NOTHING OF FUCKING VALUE from this roach f&gg0t's account. Incessant worthless ch1mpouts when users rightfully call out his "HoLY GoDlY" Lus. What happens when POOCEL-appointed cuck fggts are put on an "aSiAN" mod board.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-11T06:02:41+00:00

An analysis and guide on dating Western raised Asian women (self.aznidentity)

submitted 1 day ago by joistheyo

[–]owlficus 6 points 1 day ago I agree on your main point that women (on the younger side) value social optics above other criteria. But on the point that it’s easier to get a top tier WF than a mid tier AF- how true is that exactly? The AFs aren’t rejecting all AMs who ask them out- that’s not why there are so many WMAFs. The reason is because all these WMs are asking them out, while AMs stare from afar and then eventually convince themselves that they didnt want AFs anyway.

[–]ssslae [score hidden] 21 hours ago

I agree on your main point that women (on the younger side) value social optics above other criteria. But on the point that it’s easier to get a top tier WF than a mid tier AF- how true is that exactly? The AFs aren’t rejecting all AMs who ask them out- that’s not why there are so many WMAFs. The reason is because all these WMs are asking them out, while AMs stare from afar and then eventually convince themselves that they didnt want AFs anyway.

You're overly simplifying the problem. AM have the ick stigma attached to them more than any other group of men living in the west. In addition to that, the media portrayed and society consensus of Asian men as bland. If you have been conditioned since birth to see yourself that way, it's not easy to approach women, especially when toxic Asian women on social media publicized their 'No Dating Asian' policies. You don't have to take my word for it, just ask White male internet daddy Jordan Peterson. He's making millions off the insecurity of young men. It's not a doom and gloom. It's slowly changing for the better for Asian men. It just takes time, and it doesn't help when people say "If I can do it, so can you." That method of tough love doesn't work for, just ask the people who use that method on fat people.

[–]owlficus [score hidden] 13 hours ago Trust me, I do understand where you’re coming from. Unless you grow up with positive reinforcement yea it’s going to affect you. This deserves a much deeper discussion. My only point with my original comment is that AMs need to stop coping by running away from the real battle - WMs - and finding comfort in raging on AFs instead

Funny how this cringe as fuck simp f&gg0t claims others are "CopInG". F&g copes by fapping every day and night to "mUh HolY PORNO LU lADEEeEEeeS".

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-08T05:29:16+00:00

Sexpats who disguise themselves as "cultural travelers" and "language learners" are a serious issue on YoutubeOC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 1 day ago by padorUWU

[–]Full_Strength_3891 82 points 20 hours ago However it must also be said that it takes two to tango. The Asian women in these videos and countries should not be given a free pass. They are not blameless. They suck up to these foreign sexpats just as much because they believe in the 'Whiteman is so gentlemen' stereotype and still have an inferiority complex believing 'Western' is better. For example, the disgusting and abhorrent women in Thailand who throw themselves like free candy to the most revolting foreigners (men 3 times their age, bald, obese, with grand daughters) enable the 'Asian women are easy lays' stereotype which promotes and enables the industry and culture of these foreign men sexpatting to these countries in the first place. Here is another example of two local Japanese women willing to throw Asian men under the bus to impress some loser White guy in a shitty street interview saying White men are better because Asian men have small dicks (Link). With women like this is it really any surprise that these foreign sexpats have so much success in Asia? I saw a quote from another AM here once which sums up why Foreigners love sexpatting around Asia without any consequence: "Asian women act meek, shy, reserved, humble, pure, when they are with Asian men, and expect Asian men to be perfect gentlemen and saints. But when they are with White men and Black men they are willing to throw all that out the window and perform the nastiest, dirtiest, sexual acts and kinks you can think of, hence why they have the highest STD rates of all races of women."

[–]CaiShen88 4 points 17 hours ago

they have the highest STD rates of all races of women."

This is actually false if we're talking about East Asia. AF are some of the most healthy and clean women in the world as far as East Asia is concerned. AF actually have the lowest STD rate in their respective countries. I don't have sources to back this, but it's pretty obvious seeing their attitude/approach to sex in Taiwan, Korea, Japan, HK, and SG. Not to mention our attitude/approach to cleanliness in general. Other XM try to twist this, and ironically, they are actually the STD sex pests that infest our countries with filthy. Just compare that to the average WF, single mom, birth control, abortion epidemic in the US where you're seeing more and more STD cases gynecologists are reporting. It's your typical racist dogs making more propaganda on Asians.

[–]ElimDegens 3 points 34 minutes ago

This is actually false

idk man, I really don't care to "defend" AF on this one like some of you do. not like they defend us on many important matters, including all of the sexual falsehoods relating to AM

Once again it is these simp cancer fucking f&gg0ts who set back Asian subs.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-08T05:22:06+00:00

Float: A wonderful original movie about finding yourself, living life to the fullest and escaping the social imprisonment by Asian parents (self.aznidentity)

submitted 2 days ago by Hunting-4-Answers

[–]archelogy [score hidden] 8 hours ago The Erasure of Asian Men continues Similar incidents: www kulturemedia org / category / gender/

[–]Hunting-4-Answers[S] [score hidden] 45 minutes ago That’s a great page. It’s kind of concerning though that it was only last updated in 2019.

KUCKTURE has been in the ground for five years thanks to shit-muncher's back-pedaling.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-04T20:33:59+00:00

u/ 128lbs: deleted This user has deleted their account. BACK TO REDDIT

In before the aiNCELs and Hong KUCK r/ am fggts let in yet ANOTHER insidious Lu KKKUNT "aLLy".

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-04T20:28:01+00:00

https://archive.ph/uOjxq

Degrading (self.aznidentity)

submitted 3 days ago by Th3G0ldStandard

[–]SirKelvinTan [score hidden] 23 hours ago Asian women are always defensive - because they’ve spent their whole lives fighting for the white patriarchy and for the privilege to be absorbed by it. The uncomfortable moments where they had to look in the mirror and realise what they represent in “post racial” America isn’t idealistic or courageous (it was however the most realistic decision they could make) . Those Japanese women in 1946 were never going to stay with their families and help rebuild their country - it was a comfortable surburban life in middle American for them I don’t doubt you as an individual are doing your best for yourself and your boyfriend to go against the trend - but from my point of view the dye is cast - the generations of “Asian sisters” before you threw in their lot with white men and thumbed their noses not just at Asian men but at other women of color and only now are they rightly being called out for it. It should make you uncomfortable - I don’t expect Asian women to accept the charges laid before them lightly You speak of being Vietnamese so you’d understand white American imperialism better than say a Chinese or Thai American - again literally yesterday we drove to Ha Long bay from Hanoi and the bus driver was telling my fiancé in Vietnamese that you can paddle to certain beaches in canoes and see shrapnel remnants of USAF bombs still in the rocks Again it mostly isn’t your fault because it was the generations of Asian sisters who came to America before from 1945 on that did the damage - they’re the ones who made all white men think Asian women belong to them and that Asian men were disposable - not you personally. I don’t see what i said as gaslighting but that’s up to you. End of the day I’ve always said on this sub - the white patriarchy is slowly sinking but it’ll be Asian American women who will gladly go down with the ship. That’s the better future I’m looking forward to

[–]Austronesian_SeaGod [score hidden] 19 hours ago I applaud you for wasting your breathe on that woman. This entire conversation is the equivalent of a black person explaining their plights and injustice to a white person, and the white person just keeps saying "WeLl wE'Re OPpRessED TOo".

[–]toebeans0611 [score hidden] 16 hours ago so silly. so ignorant. that's not at all what I'm saying. you need to understand your friends, foes, enemies and partners in order to make any strides toward an actual solution. I'm not saying "hey look at me we're oppressed too" I'm saying stop putting us in a box and calling us out for not doing shit when in actuality there are a bunch of asian girls fighting the same fight as asian men but in a different way. Unfortunately our way isn't recognized as "fighting" but they'd rather have us yell and scream in the comments or online to get the message across. Clearly it still isn't working so.... At least SirKelvinTan is taking his time to have some sort of conversation. If you're asian yourself, you're just trying to tear down your own community. It' s pre sad. I truly feel sorry for you.

[–]Austronesian_SeaGod [score hidden] 14 hours ago

when in actuality there are a bunch of asian girls fighting the same fight as asian men but in a different way.

Like?

If you're asian yourself, you're just trying to tear down your own community.

You're the ones who fucking sold out to white patriarchy and imperialism. Don't even dare say this garbage. I hate to break it to you but the ones whos gonna bring down white patriarchy and white imperialism are definitely not Asian women like you or your "sisters" who completely sold themselves to White Imperialism.

It' s pre sad. I truly feel sorry for you.

This is hilarious and adorable. Don't feel sorry for me. I'm living my life to the fullest, feel sorry to your community because no other group of women on earth marries or dates Neo-Nazis/white supremacists more than Asian women that even brown/black feminists have noticed and hated your group lmfao. Maybe try and actually better your own community than lecture us here with your gaslighting bullshit because I can assure you Asian men knows what Imperialism did to Asia more because we still keep fighting to this day while majority in your community sold out. [removed]

[–]aznidentity-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 4 hours ago Your post was removed for violating rule 2) Friendly Fire.

[–]toebeans0611 [score hidden] 13 hours ago Ya don’t give Asian women rights, capture and enslave them, use them as collateral for your brothers and fathers debts since the beginning of time and you blame them for seeking a better life elsewhere. If you get rid of all the noise and boil it down to the essence, you’d realize you share similar mentality to Asian women. You’re telling me if whatever country you’re living in right now went to shit due to something out of your control, and you and your family has to suffer you wouldn’t get out? A million Vietnamese men left their country when it went to shit and sought refuge in western countries, building lives in western workplaces, seeking opportunities where their own country couldn’t provide, assimilating to western cultures so that our 2nd gen ass could thrive. And many of them have never looked back to help out their own country. You’re effectively saying these men are also sell outs to western society. You act like all Asian guys are 100% innocent in this mess. All of Asia was calling war on each other which resulted in outer influences needing to step in. An Asia ran by Asian men I must add. You’re just a 2nd gen kid raised by the internet, sitting comfortably in the confines of your own room, never had to go through tough times making tough decisions like your parents or their parents parents. Dealing with such first world problems. Racism will always exist and will continue to exist but at the very least understanding all perspectives of YOUR OWN PEOPLE makes it a little better. You sound like a first world kid that has nothing better to do than to cry about what thousands of mental health issues you have. Get over yourself, recognize everyone played a part and move the fuck on. You’re not offering solutions you’re here being edgy and punching your fists into a wall. People who are in denial, who can’t own up to your mistakes and spin it as gaslighting don’t wanna understand. Label it every which way but don’t wanna look at themselves. We all played a part. People been acting confused asking for years why the majority of AFWM couple more prevalent than any other types. I’ve just answered it. But you guys go ahead and keep denying how history shapes our today, denying your own mistakes, denying your people’s perspective, denying other forms of efforts within the community and you can continue going about your lives asking the same goddam question. I along with other Asian girls are out here listening to Asian guys perspective, we try to understand it, start a discourse, reject the Asian bimbos who don’t get it, try to build up the Asian community rather than to tear it down and own up to our mistakes. We don’t “call out” people in our own community for lacking in effort or flat out disregard differing perspectives because all of it needs to be addressed in order to build a unified community. If we’re not unified, the same thing will happen as it did in the past; war within the Asian community and then white people see an opening when we’re at our weakest and step in to take more…. That’s at the very least what I’m trying to do so don’t just disregard the effort. I’ve had many Asian men reach out through dms saying they read all my comments on Reddit and appreciate my support for Asian men whilst being able to support Asian women as well but I’m having a hard time figuring out why there are other Asian guys that just flat out deny it… oh well u can’t reason with them all…

[–]Austronesian_SeaGod [score hidden] 12 hours ago Blah blah blah blah nothing but a bunch of bullshit and gaslighting. Just shut the fuck up. [removed]

[–]aznidentity-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 4 hours ago Your post was removed for violating rule 2) Stay civil.

Yet another gaslighter KKKUNT the aiNCEL simp cancers "CAn'T AFforD tO LoSE". Front page is fucking dead, "mUh actiVisM" dead, KUCKTUREMedia dead for a long ass time. The only fucking thing "pRoDuCtiVe" about aiNCELs is the Lu-chase.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-04T03:30:34+00:00

Bilingualism and Pride in AMXF children OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 5 hours ago by Baphomette__

[–]128lbs -21 points 4 hours ago

As a non-Asian mother to an Asian-passing boy, I worked my ass off to make sure he retained the language and access to his culture, even sacrificing my comfort level to have him around the slew of WMAF hafu kids and their moms (lmfao).

Are you expecting a pat on the back or something? The self-congratulatory tone in your post rubs me the wrong way - as if you are better just because you are an AMXF. But remember, AMAF will always be better than XMAF and AMXF.

It’s also something you can never see in a boy coming from a WMAF household

At the end of the day, your family is the exception and not the norm for AMXF households as well. Mixed race Asians - products of both XMAF and AMXF - are rarely raised with an Asian upbringing. The families almost always speak in English, and the Asian parent is usually whitewashed/very Westernized. Edit: I find it very interesting that you didn't specify you are a black woman lol.

[–]Baphomette__[S] 18 points 3 hours ago Do I need to specify myself as black? I think everyone knows I am, I post here enough. And I definitely don’t think I need a pat on the back. I specifically said I don’t think I am better but I put in a huge amount of effort to make sure my son is adjusters and healthy. And frankly, I’m talking to the specific group of men who are in similar situations as myself and my husband. I totally get that that’s not you but there’s no need to be so passive aggressive about it.

[–]godchild77 11 points 3 hours ago She is an Asian woman, she is just mad because you got with one of our bros. As you must have noticed IRL too as an AMXFer, they are very hypocritical in this area. Ignore her. She has been crying about AMXF in the subreddit for a while now.

[–]128lbs -4 points 2 hours ago

She is an Asian woman, she is just mad because you got with one of our bros.

I honestly don't give a damn if a black woman "got with one of our bros". Also, I would NEVER be with a Japanese man as a Chinese woman. I just despise her superior tone in this post as if AMXF is the best pairing - even better than AMAF - when that's not true.

She has been crying about AMXF in the subreddit for a while now.

I am a pro-AMAF Asian woman as I have previously said MANY times. I treat XMAF and AMXF equally as both have the same result: the end of full Asians in the West. No, hapas are not equivalent to full Asians. Live your life, but don't complain about "no more full Asians" decades from now 🤡🤡🤡 Also, pointing out white worshipping behavior in Asian men and the like is not "crying about AMXF".

[–]Baphomette__[S] 4 points 1 hour ago I didn’t mention AMAF one time. You’re caught up on something that wasn’t even said, and obviously have a real issue with Asian men interested in non Asian women. AMAF is nowhere near threatened globally. Do you really care about pure bloodlines or are you just upset about a minority of AM who are living differently? And even if there were thousands of white worshipping Asian men, how does that affect me or you? Focus on your own relationships.

Absolutely nothing of fucking value contributed by 128lbLUKKKUNT and yet the Bitch is still allowed on r/ am. Fucking worthless as fuck simp cancer fggits are the reason why Asian subreddits turn to shit.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-02T05:04:42+00:00

Degrading (self.aznidentity)

submitted 21 hours ago by Th3G0ldStandard

[–]Penetrator_kun [score hidden] 9 hours ago Asian women in the comments aren't even offended and you're here simping for them like a knight trying to protect their dignity. Let them fight their own battles. Why are so many Asian American men such simps?

[–]magicalbird [score hidden] 9 hours ago Aznidentity leans unity for AMAF although it’s funny how a lot of users project and hate Asian woman dating choices too. If an Asian woman has this deep of a fetish and is okay with the public display of that then let Asian women fight the fight cause the public aspect of it and how the OP discussed it was the disgusting part. The funny thing is if an Asian male did similar most Asian women wouldn’t care.

[–]Penetrator_kun [score hidden] 9 hours ago Asian American men will always be on the losing side trying to maintain AMAF in the US. They're at a huge disadvantage, it's pointless. They need to let that shit go or they'll still be here even after 50 years crying about Asian Women with White men and be a laughing stock.

[–]owlficus [score hidden] 30 minutes ago This is defeatism

[–]magicalbird [score hidden] 8 hours ago Tell the subreddit this cause that’s their mission even if it’s misguided in my opinion.

[–]Penetrator_kun [score hidden] 8 hours ago I'm just voicing my opinion out of frustration, I don't see much hope in them honestly. As an Asian guy myself, it's just frustrating to see fellow Asian men(mostly Asian American) being so pathetic.

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 1 hour ago I mean that's what the mods and the mod-adjacent users literally support. This whole "AMAF unity" is just AM unrequited simping.

[–]owlficus [score hidden] 30 minutes ago Being pro AMAF is not simping- it’s recognizing that this is the strongest way to uplift the asian community. Literally and by definition anything else increases the rift and makes the community- esp AM- weaker

Once again, worthless Lu-chaser simp fggits are the cancer of Asian subreddits. All progress shitted away in favor of thirsting after "mUH FaULtLesSS GoDlY LADEeEEeEEEeeeEeeeEEesssSSsSssSS". Post restrictions and censorship of anything offending "mUh HoLY GoddESS LAdEEeSSssSsss". Three pmaf LU KKKUNTs allowed in recently and more in the near future because aiNCELS is what happens when the simp cancers are in charge.

Chousiyindu · 2024-04-01T05:54:13+00:00

https://archive.ph/ovMfi#selection-3481.0-3559.5

Why are some Chinese women still looking to the West for love - Basically Mail Order Bride, Leftover (self.aznidentity)

submitted 3 days ago by IndependentRip722

[–]Alaskan91 -1 points 1 day ago It's not my job to spoon fed u. U can shift thru my extensive comment history and piece it together. May take a few hours.

[–]lllkill [score hidden] 23 hours ago Fair enough, I am in line with your view points. That being said it doesn't hurt to help the bros out here instead of being super antagonistic.

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 18 hours ago Not a bro and also I get asked to explain things on a consistent basis. When one could do the work themsleves. The issue with asians is lack of initiative. It's cultural. Asians like to take a straight and narrow path.

[–]Wide-Grapefruit-6462 [score hidden] 7 hours ago Translation: I'm talking out of my ass. [removed]

[–]aznidentity-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 15 hours ago locked comment Rule 5) Activism not slacktivism AI is for Positive Change, Not Passive Outrage. Unproductive ragebait of anti-Asian racism, without a call to action will likely be removed. Venting is allowed, but low effort posts about violent crime, racism online or in the news, should be posted in the Weekly Free-for-all, not as standalone posts.

An "aSIaN" sub shitted out by a POOcel was never going to be Pro-Asian.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-30T22:04:08+00:00

The new Bachelorette is Asian American so we need Asian men to apply! (self.aznidentity)

submitted 2 days ago by steevadz[🍰]

Because it's not gonna be great to see her and 32 white guys courting her....

[–]Fit-Zone-6030 [score hidden] an hour ago Asian American women? Insta GG to any Asian contestants…but will probably virtue signal to black contestants though.

[–]B-ILL2 [score hidden] 3 hours ago Like she would pick an AM 🤣

[–]SmallWhiteCod [score hidden] 5 hours ago I almost rolled my eyes all the way back when I saw it on facebook. Oh wow, so unique, so diversity! Trophy asian woman is the prize! I've never seen this trope before, truly the first Asian American woman on TV, so brave and trailblazing! Did they put a full AM on The Bachelor yet? If yes, then I'll respect it. Otherwise, it's just another Asa Akira sausage fest for the WM fantasy. Asian kings should apply to The Bachelor instead, not fight for scraps

[–]JerryH_KneePads [score hidden] 5 hours ago Another good example of how western media are trying to oppressed the Asian men. They still couldn’t shake off Bruce Lee taking a white woman.

"MuH aiNCELs QuALiTy" right there. Anything for "mUh VieWs" right POOCEL?

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-30T21:58:14+00:00

Why are some Chinese women still looking to the West for love - Basically Mail Order Bride, Leftover by IndependentRip722 in aznidentity

[–]128lbs[score hidden] 3 hours ago

middle-aged divorced women still face significant struggles

No shit, Sherlock. Very few Chinese men (and their parents) would accept a divorced woman, especially one with children. Western men essentially get the undesirable Chinese women a.k.a. damaged goods.

The new Bachelorette is Asian American so we need Asian men to apply! by steevadz in aznidentity

[–]128lbs [score hidden] 3 hours ago

we need Asian men to apply!

Why encourage Asian men to partake in these trashy shows? Why stoop to their level? Because it's not gonna be great to see her and 32 white guys courting her..... Just...don't watch it? I have never watched and will never watch shows like this - it's low-class behavior. Chinese and Korean shows are significantly better.

Moving to California or false hopes? by Lazy_Antelope6243 in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs 1 point 3 hours ago

Once you're married, bay area is awesome.

I doubt it. WMAF and their children are inescapable there.

Vancouver or Montreal by Suitable-Finger-7949 in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs 5 points 3 hours ago

and dating WF

I find it funny when people here say AM do not white worship 😂😂😂

[–]LMAO-SPIDERMAN 4 points an hour ago Expressing any interest in dating WF isn't equivalent to the white worship that we see in Asian females, or the Asian woman worship we see among White males. Asian males generally don't white worship like Asian females do. It doesn't "go both ways" as a phenomenon.

[–]iemg88 0 points 27 minutes ago On god i was about to say vancouver has the baddest asian girls but to each their own

[–]louielouie222 0 points 2 hours ago I know right

[–]dkfjlaf83r3jn 0 points 54 minutes ago AM do not white worship 😂😂😂 Definitely we do. It's the world we live in

Been Living and Dating in Eastern Europe for 7 years, AMA by zshane1125 in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs -15 points 3 hours ago Massive cringe 🤮🤮🤮

And there are the cancer f&gg0t simps upvoting this subversive batshit LU bitch. These "aSIaN" subs are guaranteed to be fucked when these cancer simp f&gg0ts show up. All progress out the fucking window for "mUh HolY FaUltLeSS EYeFfff lADEeEEeeEEeEEEEEeEEE".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-30T21:49:42+00:00

https://archive.ph/5q8Ys#selection-6105.0-6189.5

Interesting observations on Japan born Chinese experiences compared to ABCs (Western born Chinese) by joistheyo in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 9 hours ago How is that gonna happen when asians delightfully rejoice in low risk actions like not having kids much. Asians gotta get every quacking duck in the perfect 180 degree row b4 they even start attempting pregnnaxy. Sad. And don't get on me about Europe low birthrate, bc America Canada, parts of Mexico and South Africa. Australia, Argentina, and new zealand are effectively the same population and ppl b reproducing. All the time. Unlike east Asia. Each east asian country is in an academic decathlon competition for who can have the lower birthrate. Sad.

Why are some Chinese women still looking to the West for love - Basically Mail Order Bride, Leftover (self.aznidentity)

submitted 3 days ago by IndependentRip722

[–]lllkill [score hidden] 21 hours ago can you explain the optics and manipulation on lineage work practices

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago It's not my job to spoon fed u. U can shift thru my extensive comment history and piece it together. May take a few hours.

[–]Wide-Grapefruit-6462 [score hidden] 7 hours ago Translation: I'm talking out of my ass.

"pregnnaxy". What a fucking tard. Nothing is more "sAD" than a mentally-handicapped Lu bitch who spends each second of every fucking day sperging at Asians.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-30T05:48:19+00:00

Interesting observations on Japan born Chinese experiences compared to ABCs (Western born Chinese) by joistheyo in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 11 hours ago I traveled extensively in Japan years ago and also met a few Japanese born Chinese. They seemed extrmeley well adjusted. Totally normal. None of that ackward shy weirdo asian kid vibe u sometimes.get from formerly bullied asian Americans. This shouldn't be shock to anybody at all a d the fact that this is even surprising says alot about asians not focusing on race. Sorry to have it smack you in the face but race Is everything!! It's so sad to hear asians tell me about a bad situation and then ask why it happened to me when duh, it's bc of u being asian and what they thought they could get away with (classic asian passivity steretype) and bc they don't like asians. It's why so many hapa women I know would rather get eye job and nose job and hair bleach to look completely white rather than buy a better car. Its about race privilege not even asethics at that point. But of course u won't know this unless u got personal with them. Ur phenotype affects you life more.than ANY education and hard work. This is why it's so important to advocate for asian american issues. but classic asian thinking says if there isn't a study to back it up then it's not evidence. Race is everything. Just bc Americans don't always bring it up to the forefront doesnt mean it true. This is where asians FAIL. No. U are NOT unique. Yes, every body is judging u based on looks. NO, nobody is going to say that out loud. Blacck ppl are way better at understanding this than clueless asians. I got treated more normally in random Asian countries than in non asian parts of the USA speaking in a midwestern english accent!!(which is most). Had I spoken those asian languages I prolly would have 95 passed as a local.

Why are some Chinese women still looking to the West for love - Basically Mail Order Bride, Leftover by IndependentRip722 in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 20 hours ago The last sentence just got me. Unlike in the usa, Chinese jobs often. Depend on lineage like Hou tai.... ?????!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!?! U r serious here. Jobs in the usa are lineage dependent too! It's just more covered up bc Americans and esp whyte culture is WAY better than asians at understanding optics and manipulation, which asians are much more poorer at. Asians get a 2/10 at understanding manipulation and optics, Hispanics a 7/10, blaccks get a 11/10 (much more socially aware than asians thats for sure), and whyte ppl get a 10/10. It's why Asian men and women work in modern day slave labor rice growing type jobs like engineering (albeit paying enough to live okish), while whyte women with an easy liberal arts degree with the right family and connections get paid 3 times (quarter million to 400k is not unusual, ive seen 3/4th of a million even) in hotel management, Public relations, investor relations, marketing, country club management, etc etc. I don't care what ego filled asian guy says, but his job is paid less and is at least 3x as hard and at least 30% more hours than Megan the millenial white girl with a trust fund model blonde husband who work in one of the above fields and is swimming in perks galore. And you are seen as a literal replaceable technical worker they can dump at any point, whereas Megan the white girl in public relations is seen as a real human being who is granted extra months of maternity leave compared to her asian female Coworker counterparts in lower positions who work even more hours and might even have an extra graduate degree. LMAO. Chinese culture is naive. They have no idea how America really works. It's so Chinese to assume things are as they seem to be on the surface and not look several layers below. Setting these women up for failure. Or severe issues upon arrival.

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 8 hours ago

Chinese culture is hilarious

Hey look guys, we got a real China expert here

Why are some Chinese women still looking to the West for love

I don't care what ego filled asian guy says When they turn an AF into an AM problem again

The mod fggts whine about "mUh QuaLiTY" yet turn a blind eye to this tard LU Bitch's diarrhea posts. The aiNCELs f&gg0t ass mods were always the root cause of aznid's failure. Every single "iDeA" they shitted out had fucked up the sub.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-29T03:00:02+00:00

Asian family culture system works way better than western individualistic society in my opinion and experience by Wumao_gangv2 in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 17 hours ago The issue with this awesome asian family plan is when you report it to the census HONESTLY and all of a sudden your family income seems high bc there are more intergeneraitonal memebrs and so the govt thinks asians are doing great and suffer from no racism. If asians were smarter about optics we would UNDER report our income to the census. Nobody is verifying the income on that anyways. But asians are honest and get burned. Good Ole usa. This reminds me of a half chinese half viet neighbor who was BLOCKED from free local preschool of some sort. Don't dig me, not sure on details. Why? She taught her toddler all of the benchmarks and so when the toddler went in for a free evaluation, they said he already passed and so they had to save the spot foe those that deserved it. SmH. Sometimes asians lack social awareness and working hard actually BACKFIRES!! For example so many asians are trying to get Into real estate and scrimp and save only to be fked over by a professional tenant bc other landlords discriminate in a way that they can get away with while asians try to go by the book. Sad

But of fucking course the schizo Lu Bitch of a "mOD" would ch1mp at anything uplifting Asians on an "AsiAN" sub. This is the fucking reason why aiNCELs is dead. Why post knowing there is an anti-Asian Lu bitch on the mod board? Fucking 24/7 censoring worthless fggt simp mod named 'toskaqe'? Worst of all a non-Asian poocel head mod? R/ aiNCELs has ended up in the garbage dump all thanks to the "leadership" of these useless and insidious fggts.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-27T01:19:54+00:00

Monthly Free-for-All (self.aznidentity)

submitted 25 days ago by AutoModerator

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] 4 hours ago Another deleted thread despite civil, high effort replies explaining why wmaf is stigmatized.

One of the worst aiNCEL "moDs" to date. The fuck has this fggt done other than censor shit 24/7 and fapping to ALL THE xmaf/pmaf Lus in his jizzed up basement?

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-27T01:16:01+00:00

Schizoids Unwarranted Indignation Towards Asian Men and Asian Culture. by ssslae in aznidentity

[–]tidyingup92 [score hidden] 6 hours ago Still using it in a derogatory way. It's not right.

[–]tidyingup92 [score hidden] 6 hours ago He really is a contributor tho

[–]tidyingup92 [score hidden] 6 hours ago You seem to have too much time on your hands to worry about these people, also calling them "schizoid" is fucked up, there are people out there with schizophrenia and you are just using this as a way of name-calling.

Thirsting after literally EVERY fucking Lu in existence counts as "aCtiVisM" on aiNCELs.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-27T01:10:54+00:00

Anyone here had to work menial jobs. Do you think it matters what kind of job an Asian male does? by CrayScias in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs 0 points 2 hours ago Congrats on making over 150K. Only lead engineers and coders make that much. This is not true at all...plenty of professions pay more than $150K/year.

Next season of bachelorette is an Asian woman. by chaeah08 in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs 19 points 7 hours ago I never watched these shows in the first place and still do not understand the appeal of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–]128lbs 26 points 7 hours ago

But will having an Asian woman open doors for future Asian man?

You are very naive if you even have to ask this. The only correct answer is no.

[–]128lbs 5 points 5 hours ago

There's usually never Asian men or much Asian people in general that shows up to audition and if there are, it's going to be the Asian

American crowd, most of us aren't interested in being on reality TV, there's not much of us to pull from if we're not showing up to audition. Exactly. I am honestly not sure why Asians would be interested in these trashy shows anyway, especially if they are looking for AM/AF.

[–]128lbs 0 points 20 minutes ago

Notice how KOREAN shows are so inclusive to white folks

Yep, it really sucks when I have to skip over parts of episodes in Chinese and Korean dramas because there are non-East Asian actors there.

[–]128lbs 1 point 25 minutes ago I agree with you, especially this part:

I don't think the personal life of Jenn Tran, the star of this show, resonates with a lot of actual real Asian women who hang with other Asians in the Asian enclaves

I am an American born Chinese woman born and raised in NYC's Chinese enclaves. I strongly prefer Chinese and Korean dramas over (trashy) Western media. But then again, international Chinese are pleasantly surprised I am not a "banana" even though I am an ABC when they meet me so I guess I'm a bit unusual? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Don't want to see af/xm influencers/couple on social media? Here is a tip to not to see them. by GameOfGoral in AsianMasculinity

[–]128lbs 2 points 7 hours ago

I think my social media feed is broken because I don't see any X/X at all

Social media is not broken; it's just that you are interested in bodybuilding, which is much better than those obsessing over XMAF and AMXF.

[–]128lbs 6 points 7 hours ago

I'm just sick of seeing tons of them on my discover/fyp and how they are trying to be "influencers" based on nothing but their relationship. You understand these are curated based on what you like watching and/or interact with, correct? So you are to blame for all the XMAF you see in your feed.

I only watch food and fitness content, so I never see XMAF and AMXF 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–]128lbs 2 points 36 minutes ago

the white worship is insane within asian women. Like the most generic white guy is treated like a 8 or something 😂

Unfortunately, the same can be said for Asian men and white women.

And these cancer simp f&gs continue to upvote this insidious fucking KKKUNT LU. It is always the worthless as fuck simp fggits responsible for the decline of an "aSIaN" sub.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-27T01:03:21+00:00

WM with a fetish takes the life of AF after he takes the lives of her parents by Hunting-4-Answers in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago Modern asian populations outside of Central Asia don't have many mongol or hun genes. It's mostly passive, soft. Communal rice farming agriculturalist genes. The small amount of hun, xiongnu and mongol genes are dispersed in northern China and Korea and its too small to make an impact. Modern asians are too soft.

[–]CaiShen88 3 points 9 days ago All you've done is talk over me and past me. You haven't even quoted and replied to any of the points I've made. You might be talking to yourself. If that's what you're trying to achieve, I won't judge. Whatever satisfies you.

Asian Chinese parents have ZERO counterculture and confucions was am overweight, diabetic loser who taught asians to be passive and conform. So u teach asian women to worship white people (thanks confucious and chinese obedience to authority oriented parenting), and then you are surprised asian females race to marry out??

Great, now you're undermining Korean and Japanese out of my arguments and generalizing all Asian cultures because you mentioned toxic Chinese values, but that somehow speaks for all Asian cultures. Sure there's similarities but you paint the bad apples of Chinese AF representing all toxic AF. You really like to give AF the benefit of the doubt. You never explained how they're influenced to make these decisions. Do you think toxic Chinese values are the only part of the equation? You might the naive one, not me.

In history, men conquor other tribes, and if they win, they get to absorb the womrn of the opposing tribe.

It's called divide and conquer, its 3 words. What are you blabbering about Einstein? You can't even spell Confucian, and you're lecturing history. Give me a break. I've already explained this, but now you're pretending to lecture me using the points I already made.

Clearly you think women carry society, not men.

That's all you interpreted from my comment? Your comprehension skills might be lacking. Maybe It's clear you don't read much, looking for points out of context? None of my points ever mentioned this. You're derailing the discussion. You're either trolling or just went full retard now.

Don't listen to what ppl say. Most don't even realize what they are saying.

You clearly do

But clearly asian women are disappointed with asian men, or else they won't be so upset and spend energy bashing them.

This is a popular belief. Maybe you LiStEnEd tO OtHer PeOplE, perhaps. You're missing half the equation again. In case you don't know, most AF who sell out were already leftover AF, white washed damaged, poor, desperate, the list goes on. It really looks like you don't account for any of these factors. The entire Asian population isn't turning white anytime soon, I hope I didn't burst your bubble. You're going back in loops after everything I said. It's ironic that you're believing in narratives. I've fed you enough troll. No more.

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago Clearly attacking line item by line item is a trait that was encouraged in high school debate/essay class, and while this would get an A plus in school, you are missing the bigger picture. Clearly this isn't an Intuition based comment. Asian culture generally lacks the intuition to see the bigger trends that shape our lives. I don't know what to say except to blame in on asian rice farming culture, where details were worshipped and the bigger picture was considered useless. But in west cost usa, even the extrmeley hot AF are marrying out so it's not looks based. I know too many.

Course the fucking Lu tard would never admit wrong. Same old "AsiANs rEEEErEEEEEEEEEeEEeeeee". Absolute waste of fucking life shitstain of a "moD".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-26T05:39:21+00:00

Why is it such a negative stigma to have a non Asian partner? (self.aznidentity)

submitted 9 hours ago by atomickittyyy

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] 7 hours ago - stickied comment PSA: Do not downvote this post unless you want to reduce how many people will see the good, educational answers people are giving.

[–]JerryH_KneePads [score hidden] 4 hours ago You’re right. This is a great read!

[–]Copeandseethe4456 [score hidden] 8 hours agolocked comment Kek. Rage online about how Asian men are incels and white men are better later ask dumb questions like these on Reddit.

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] 7 hours ago Bad faith response + 4chan lingo = low quality. 5 day ban, see rule 2).

[–]Siakim43 [score hidden] 8 hours ago I advocate for getting the message out there on how biases rooted in the false superiority of white men impact us BUT I hate this type of condescension. More dialogue needs to occur on this topic and this doesn't help...

"Do NOT DoWnVoTe MuH FaP MAtErIaL". It is proven beyond doubt aiNCELs is controlled opposition. Poo and LU mods. Worthless eunuch simp fggts like the ones above. Fucking pmaf LU subversives allowed in daily now. Open support for anti-Asian (((politicians))). Ceaseless mass-censorship. R/ aiNCELs is anything but "pRo-ASIANn".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-26T05:27:13+00:00

Specific Action We Can Take To Create Positive Change For East and South East Asians In The US?OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 2 days ago by FocusedEnergy18

[–]anyang869 0 points 11 hours ago There is no future for EA/SEA men as a group in the West. You mentioned Jewish people and Indians. Jewish people have a wide range of religious orthodoxy and the orthodox ones only marry other Jews and have lots and lots of Jewish babies with them. Indians also tend to marry other Indians and have more kids on average than EA/SEA couples. The kids them become the next generation of Jews/Indians and can benefit from passed down generational wealth and the achivements of their ancestors. Therefore, they have a community to fight for. They are not out there trying to organize a brotherhood of men. They are out there trying to advance their communities, which are made up of families of men, women, and children, as well as their traditional cultures and beliefs. By the way, white people do the same thing. They have white families & then pass down generational wealth to their white kids. If we want to do the same thing for EA/SEA men, then we would have to start by getting back our women.

Once again it is the simp fggit eunuchs that set back every "AsiAN" subreddit. Thristing after "mUH fAULTlESs HOlY LADeEEEee" before all else.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-26T05:23:21+00:00

Do you feel gaslit when AW attribute their strong preference for dating WM to AM being patriarchal?OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 1 day ago by India krmaml

[–]CrayScias 7 points 22 hours ago Yeah but Jewish women still go with Jewish men and they've been known to have a patriarchal society. I don't think women should use that argument anymore especially Asian women to get back at Asian men or get revenge. It's as what Biden says Trump is only out for revenge.

[–]Viend -8 points 21 hours ago Yeah but Jewish women still go with Jewish men and they've been known to have a patriarchal society. Asian women still mostly prefer Asian men even though every Asian culture is patriarchal. That doesn't mean anything, the only women who have problems with patriarchies are ones who suffered from it, and the only way this happens is if their dads didn't do their job.

It is this same worthless simp fggt again. Fucking (((subversives))) are "ABOVe" actual Asian users on arcpoocel-controlled "AsiaN" subs.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-25T03:40:30+00:00

My Asian son hates me for marrying a White man. (self.aznidentity)

submitted 3 hours ago by 123redlight_

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] 45 minutes ago - stickied comment I'll be taking this post down in 10 minutes, because it looks like the OP account has been suspended for accumulating too many reports on a new account, and can no longer prove to not be a troll, so there's no point in giving the benefit of the doubt now.

[–]InstructionNarrow160 [score hidden] 46 minutes ago Your son shouldn't be angry at you and he should see this as win

[–]Pete_in_the_Beej[🍰] [score hidden] an hour ago Just Asian women in the West things. Jesus Christ I'm glad I left.

And the head poocel whines about "mUH DaMN QuALiTY YoU FUKkS". R/ aiNCELs was doomed from the start.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-25T02:34:24+00:00

Why do a lot of Asian Americans attach so much of their individual self worth to entertainment products? by latenights_47 in asianamerican

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 44 minutes ago Bc asians are trained to follow rules and be obedient to whatever authority is important. This works in Asia but In America, This means kids are trained to value mainstream sources (the authority) , and not set up their own streams of entertainment and cultural pride. Just like how asians are trained to be good at school and to not question stuff. And how the most asian cities like San Francisco are staunchly liberal bc that is what they were taught in schools, and now the liberal policies are resulting in criminals attacking asians bc they r easier targets. If it isn't the consequences of cultural child rearing actions.

Black people and Asians by oscarwilde7 in asianamerican

[–]Alaskan91 1 point 4 days ago I'm not going to comment on ur comment about that group being emotional at signs of disrespect but I will say...... Asians are WAY too PASSIVE, way too unemotional, and way too relaxed about disrespect.....and WAY too risk averse. And then we wonder why ppl say stuff to us they won't dare say to other ppl of color. Asian cukture seems to center on acting above animal behavior, but the issue is that.....is we ARE literal animals.

https://archive.ph/sqaKD#selection-1853.33-1853.42

Emergence of Korean Fetishisation for Male and Female (self.aznidentity)

submitted 19 hours ago by Last_Kaleidoscope_75

Constant sperging at AMXF existing, batshit LU mod AlasKKKUNT91 and eunuch mod Kuckoldfucktard1112 frequent r/ aa, endless amounts of gaslighters approved on the sub. R/ aiNCELs was never fucking about being "PrO-AsiAN" and never will be.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-25T02:17:48+00:00

Embarrassed about dating a white man as a 25 year old Asian woman (self.aznidentity)

submitted 23 hours ago by foxyhater18

[–]beyondempty11 [score hidden] 5 hours ago Did these people read your post?? They’re acting like you only dated yt men in past. You have dated Asian men before so clearly you don’t yt worship so I don’t understand all these accusations and judgements in the comments 🤨. So weird. If it didn’t work, it didn’t work. You can’t force connections. I think you should go on this date and give it a chance.. you just may never know.

[–]ElkSuperb8460 [score hidden] 5 hours ago You know what don't feel bad for dating a white man. You date who you want. As long as your date isn't fetishizing you or you dating him to get back at your own culture

[–]tiggermillion [score hidden] 10 hours ago You shouldn’t judge people on their race Just enjoy your date, if it’s a right match it’s a right match if not it’s not.

[–]Xerio_the_Herio [score hidden] 10 hours ago The heart's gonna do what the heart's gonna do... but look within first is my biased reply. You will have 1000% more things in common and relatable.

[–]Realistic_Ad3354 [score hidden] 11 hours ago Look, we are okay if you date outside your race. It would be hypocritical if Asian guys gate keep the women from “dating out”. This is not the 1900 and we don’t live in the Middle East where religions are used to bound women. Also I live in CZ, so most of my friends and social circle are from former Soviet states. Russia, Poland, Slovakia, Hungary, Serbia, Kazakhstan and Balkans such as Romania and Albania. Most of these countries have a different concept of “whiteness” compared to the USA for example. And some of them are not even white - Turkish people are very very mixed. Some of my Turkish friends looks exactly like us Asians or those tribes people from China. I think as long as you both love each other dearly. Most Asian communities are open to support.

[–]My-Own-Way [score hidden] 13 hours ago Shame, shame, shame, ain’t never beating the allegations. Don’t know why you’re even asking. Are you looking for confirmation bias? You do you, just don’t blame it on AM for the choices you make in life.

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 11 hours ago

Are you looking for confirmation bias

there already is on this post, similar to asianamerican and other milquetoast spaces

[–]foxyhater18[S] [score hidden] 12 hours ago Honestly, I was hoping for more insight into why I feel this way and see if there were other people who had similar experiences of wanting to be with an Asian man but branching out. I have dated other races before but it’s just something about dating a white man that feels embarrassing

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] 10 hours ago Being hyper-conscious is far better than being clueless. That's about all you can ask for.

[–]asianmovement [score hidden] 13 hours ago Sometimes you gotta date out once just to see what you genuinely need to have in a relationship when it comes to cultural compatibility that lacks when it comes to dating outside the race.

[–]foxyhater18[S] [score hidden] 12 hours ago That actually makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your comment

[–]Ramen-Prince-8824 1 point 1 day ago I respect that you feel shame for being with someone who isn’t Asian. It shows you do care about your culture and people. Deep down you know once you sleep w/ white guy, you will never be viewed the same. I just hope you don’t end up like other Asian women who date white guys only to be used up as an exotic novelty, discarded, traumatized, and regretfully that in the future no quality Asian man will ever choose you as his wife. I know I wouldn’t. As an Asian American male, I don’t have a problem with Asian women dating White guys as long as they don’t disparage Asian men and give dating Asian men a real effort, not being indoctrinated to only like anyone but Asian men. There are good white men out there but most genuine good hearted white guys move to Asia.

[–]My-Own-Way [score hidden] 6 hours ago

There are good white men out there but most genuine good hearted white guys move to Asia.

LOL no, don’t spread false information.

[–]Austronesian_SeaGod [score hidden] 1 hour ago lmao yeah the fuck is that user smoking.

Open support of pmaf KKKUNTS. Like I said time and time again, simp f&gg0ts are the fucking cancer of 'Asian' subreddits. Do NOT believe aiNCELS is "difFerEnt" from r/ asianamerican.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-23T04:19:09+00:00

It’s time we move on past whining about dating and AF OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 2 hours ago by PickleInTheSun

Like fr, 80% of this sub is just the constant moaning and groaning about dating and AF liking WM it’s getting pathetic.

[–]LunahMayer 22 points an hour ago Complaining about people complaining. What's new. I agree with you on a lot of points, but this post isn't going to change anything. You just gotta filter the good information yourself and absorb what's useful.

[–]PickleInTheSun[S] 4 points 59 minutes ago While true, my hope is that TikToks like the one I posted serves as a bucket of cold water to the dudes that just wanna bitch and moan about dating as an Asian dude. While I'm also complaining (about complaining), I'm also providing actionable advice and explaining why it's detrimental instead of simply screaming, "lOok HOw oPPreSseD i Am". You know Asian dudes bitching about dating is a hallmark when there's a whole damn subculture making fun of it.

[–]upanddownallaround 3 points 11 minutes ago Thank God. Finally someone said it. This sub has some real bitter miserable people. So many highly upvoted comments that are straight up hating on Asian women and others. The obsession with race in general is weird. A white woman says something nice about Asian men and people here go crazy. Constantly complain about WMAF when so many of you obsess over AMWF. Like it's some impressive feat to score with white women by itself and makes you feel validated or something. So many bragging posts and comments I've seen here. Really comes across creepy. And the misogyny. Trying to imagine myself as a women (of any race) visiting this sub and it's repulsive. Ready for the downvotes.

[–]TangerineX 1 point 9 minutes ago I've tried bringing it up in the past, but honestly I gave up. This entire subreddit has basically been about 2 things for the past few months: how shitty Asian women are, or how to bag themselves a white girl.

[–]cracksilog 0 points 14 minutes ago

Like fr, 80% of this sub is just the constant moaning and groaning about dating and AF liking WM it’s getting pathetic.

That’s this entire sub’s mindset lmao. All everyone does here is complain. I’ve said this before, but sometimes I think this sub is satire because there’s so much whining on here. “Waaah Asian women don’t date me.” Oh, didn’t realize your whole worldview hinged on one person not liking you. “Waaah people are racist against Asians.” Yeah, people are racist against a lot of people. White people are racist towards Black people. Hispanics are racist. Asians are racists. Everyone is. We’re not special. “Waaah they think Asian dicks are small.” Why do you care how we look like in the world/media/movies/society/etc. “Waaah Robert Downey Jr.” I saw that and I swear I was like is this satire lmao “Waaah this Asian is mean towards other Asians.” OK, then just ignore them? Why are we so focused on others and how other Asians are treated (good or bad) or who they love or hate? The entire point in life is to get a good partner, get a good career, raise a family, have a nice house, etc.

[–]peezatimee -8 points 1 hour ago It's easier to blame AF then actually improve yourself. Life isn't fair. boo hoo :(

[–]hahew56766 5 points 41 minutes ago As if AFs are angels and can't do no wrong of white worshipping? The point is that complaining doesn't do shit until you actually try to improve yourself

These simp f&gg0t cancers are the very reason why aiNCELs and r/ am are the way they are. "Don'T FUCKing ALiENaTE MUH FaP MaTERial".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-23T04:06:10+00:00

A White girl who wanted advice about asking out a hot Asian guy update:OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 1 day ago by DexsDinnerWifi

[–]throwmiamivelvet -21 points 1 day ago What advice do you want? He told you no. What do you want? A cookie for asking an Asian guy out because you are a white girl?

[–]Delicious-Treacle135 15 points 1 day ago I don’t think she’s asking for advice…she previously did and gave an update on what happened using advice given from the sub…

[–]Hunting-4-Answers 14 points 1 day ago This is some strange unwarranted hostility. Holy sh*t

[–]throwmiamivelvet -8 points 1 day ago versus what? women coming into our space and getting free validation? come on.

[–]Hunting-4-Answers 4 points 1 day ago Are you a guy?

[–]Delicious-Treacle135 7 points 1 day ago Probably an incel

[–]throwmiamivelvet -1 points 1 day ago I'm trying to curb the simping you guys do all day with imaginary women that you don't even know if it's a woman posting here

"OuR sPaCE". Fucking (((insidious))) pmaf porno collectors get to remain on r/ am thanks to those two poo-tasting Hong KUCK f&gg0ts in the mod board.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-18T03:52:10+00:00

WM with a fetish takes the life of AF after he takes the lives of her parents (self.aznidentity)

submitted 3 days ago by Hunting-4-Answers

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 18 hours ago Don't listen to what ppl say. Most don't even realize what they are saying. Asian women blaming AM misogyny is bc they sense something is wrong inherently with the tribe but they can't put their finger on it exactly (low intuition), so they just blame whatever. But clearly asian women are disappointed with asian men, or else they won't be so upset and spend energy bashing them. Ppl bash bc they are emotionally involved. The opposite of love isn't hate its disinterest. It's not that complicated. Women by large just go with whatever they r taught by parents and society. Asian Chinese parents have ZERO counterculture and confucions was am overweight, diabetic loser who taught asians to be passive and conform. So u teach asian women to worship white people (thanks confucious and chinese obedience to authority oriented parenting), and then you are surprised asian females race to marry out?? Clearly you think women carry society, not men. Most of history is patriarchal. Just facts. Even America today, where women can vote, is run mostly by men. In history, men conquor other tribes, and if they win, they get to absorb the womrn of the opposing tribe. Imho putting the onus on women is a ego preservation method meant to not take responsibility as much. Look at isreal. The men have spent so much effort to perpetuate their tribe. Supporting other Jewish people, setting up foundations so their wealth go to other Jewish oegs rather than being taxed away, even setting up jewish center WHERE THEY VACATION. Look at Cancun in Mexico! In the hotel zone is a Jewish center! Where ever they go, the men set up support organizations abd take risks to help each other. They even subsidize fertility procedures in isreal! Jewish foudnaitojs have fertility grants for IVF (artifical fertilization to have kids). Jewish women mostly marry in bc Look at those goodies what goodies do east asian get for marrying in? Lol crickets!. Jewish women r swimming in goodies literally when they marry in. They don't even care that the Jewish dude is short! Cuz they compensate in other ways.

[–]CaiShen88 [score hidden] 15 hours ago All you've done is talk over me and past me. You haven't even quoted and replied to any of the points I've made. You might be talking to yourself. If that's what you're trying to achieve, I won't judge. Whatever satisfies you.

Asian Chinese parents have ZERO counterculture and confucions was am overweight, diabetic loser who taught asians to be passive and conform. So u teach asian women to worship white people (thanks confucious and chinese obedience to authority oriented parenting), and then you are surprised asian females race to marry out??

Great, now you're undermining Korean and Japanese out of my arguments and generalizing all Asian cultures because you mentioned toxic Chinese values, but that somehow speaks for all Asian cultures. Sure there's similarities but you paint the bad apples of Chinese AF representing all toxic AF. You really like to give AF the benefit of the doubt. You never explained how they're influenced to make these decisions. Do you think toxic Chinese values are the only part of the equation? You might the naive one, not me.

In history, men conquor other tribes, and if they win, they get to absorb the womrn of the opposing tribe.

It's called divide and conquer, its 3 words. What are you blabbering about Einstein? You can't even spell Confucian, and you're lecturing history. Give me a break. I've already explained this, but now you're pretending to lecture me using the points I already made.

Clearly you think women carry society, not men.

That's all you interpreted from my comment? Your comprehension skills might be lacking. Maybe It's clear you don't read much, looking for points out of context? None of my points ever mentioned this. You're derailing the discussion. You're either trolling or just went full retard now.

Don't listen to what ppl say. Most don't even realize what they are saying.

You clearly do

But clearly asian women are disappointed with asian men, or else they won't be so upset and spend energy bashing them.

This is a popular belief. Maybe you LiStEnEd tO OtHer PeOplE, perhaps. You're missing half the equation again. In case you don't know, most AF who sell out were already leftover AF, white washed damaged, poor, desperate, the list goes on. It really looks like you don't account for any of these factors. The entire Asian population isn't turning white anytime soon, I hope I didn't burst your bubble. You're going back in loops after everything I said. It's ironic that you're believing in narratives. I've fed you enough troll. No more.

No fucking point to this KKKUNT being an aiNCELs "moD". Every single fucking worthless login by the pathetic bitch, "AsiA REEEEEEEEEeeerEEEEEEEEEEEEEEErEEEEEEEEEEEEErerEEEEEEEEErEEEEEEEEEEeeeeee". Literally EVERY FUCKING WORTHLESS ASS LOGIN. Do not take aiNCELs' "We'rE Pros-ASiANN" shit seriously when this blatantly anti-Asian, pro-nonAsian fucking Lu KKKUNT exists.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-16T05:41:59+00:00

WM with a fetish takes the life of AF after he takes the lives of her parents (self.aznidentity)

submitted 1 day ago by Hunting-4-Answers

[–]CaiShen88 [score hidden] 18 hours ago AF worship WM at the cost of their own lives. Was it worth it? Meanwhile, AM get blamed for trying to call it out. Can't expect any activism if there's double standards everywhere. AF benefit from fetishization but comes with consequences which leads to their downfall. All you have to do is sell out, and you get all the previliges. It makes sense to not give it up even if there's a risk of danger. They want white validation so much while degrading their own culture and people and expect the same people who you demonize to save you. What a weird and creepy loop.

[–]XstanJP [score hidden] 14 hours ago White guys and other non-Asian guys litterally say "AF are easy and cheap" in the lockerrooms because they crave non-Asian validation so bad while they cry "AM are not entitled to AF's bodies", when Asian men call out racism and selfhatred LOL

[–]TheSkyIsBeautiful [score hidden] 17 hours ago What a weird response. Why're you blanket blaming asian women? Nowhere in the article is it indicated that the Asian woman even knows the white man killer.

[–]Onlyherforare4son [score hidden] 4 hours ago More so the white worshipping of Asian women have created a society where white men feel entitled to Asian women. Asian women are the only racial group in the entire country where the perpetrators of violence are not their own race men, and yet they still flock to white men and demonize Asian men. As tough as it is to hear, if you were a white man and you wanted to commit acts of violence, wouldn’t Asian women be the ideal target

[–]TheSkyIsBeautiful [score hidden] 2 hours ago Sure there may be an inproportionate white worship compared to other races, yet in this specific article has nothing to do with that. I’m all for calling out self hate, but when it applies. Responses like OP just seem cringe, and seems out of context. lol

[–]MaruKata [score hidden] 17 hours ago That was 2019

[–]Hunting-4-Answers[S] [score hidden] 16 hours ago Groundbreaking contribution. Thanks. I guess since it happened that year, she doesn’t matter anymore? Smh. I even mentioned how I only just heard about this. The mainstream media likes to give minimal attention to these type of crimes.

Any "ProGrESS" made by these "AsiaN" subreddits is always shot to hell by some fucking cockroach little simp f&gg0t in the mod board. "Can'T mAKeS FuN Of MuH LU GoDdeSSs, CensorSHiP Time". The story of r/ am and aiNCELs. Simp f&gg0t locusts are the fucking reason there are LU mods. Why there are worthless "eyY EFf" trolls constantly spewing gaslighting diarrhea. Worthless simp cockroaches are the cancers of every "Asian" sub.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-16T05:30:41+00:00

A little ramble about how this sub's ideas about AF are counterproductive to lifting up Asian Communities + my perspective and experiences (self.aznidentity)

submitted 19 hours ago by littlebushoodie

[–]DoTheMichiganRag [score hidden] 7 hours ago I can see you tried to strike a balance, but instead it generally felt more like another AM bashing. Kind of like a yada yada yada, but AM need to do this... You just casually glossed over the most important fundamental part, lol. (Seinfeld reference by the way, to the younger members here).

[–]littlebushoodie[S] [score hidden] 3 hours ago I am not AM bashing at all i’m sorry if it came across that way. Please tell me which part i glossed over

[–]magicalbird [score hidden] 9 hours ago This subreddit is funny in that it acts for AMAF unity but there’s a ton of hatred and bitterness towards AF that date out. It’s been reduced compared to other years but there’s still a lot of hatred.

[–]Th3G0ldStandard [score hidden] 2 hours ago Pretty reductive way to assess users here

[–]littlebushoodie[S] [score hidden] 2 hours ago Yes this subreddit is funny. I got a bunch of really explicit and horrible stuff in my DMs but if I posted this on any other Asian sites maybe I wouldn’t have received this amount of vitriol

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] 26 minutes ago You can send us a modmail. We will ban them if they have post history here.

[–]historybuff234 [score hidden] 3 hours ago Speaking of white-worshipping behavior from an AF, here is a post found on Reddit:

Unpopular Opinion: As a Chinese girl, "Cho Chang" isn't that racist (self.harrypotter) I first read the Harry Potter books when I was nine, and I fell in love with the series. And of course, there was Cho Chang, that one Chinese girl. When I first read about her, I thought her character was annoying and whiny and silly, but never as racist. In fact, it was quite the opposite. I actually appreciated her dating Harry. For the longest time, I hated my Asian features. There was always the standard of white beauty which I never fitted in with. For Harry to call Cho "extremely pretty" was a shock for my nine-year-old self. I remembered how happy it made me, that an Asian girl could be just as beautiful as a white girl. Obviously, the bar was set pretty low, however, at that time, there was a severe lack of representation within children's book, and to this day, I am grateful to Harry Potter for making me feel that way. …. Obviously, I can't speak on the behalf of ALL Chinese girls, but to me personally, she's not racist or offensive, and her character actually helped me as an Asian girl growing up in a white-dominated community.

Who wrote that? OP. r.harrypotter unpopular_opinion_as_a_chinese_girl_cho_chang

[–]littlebushoodie[S] [score hidden] 3 hours ago Ahhh I admit that doesn’t paint me in the best light but that was me sharing my personal experience during my primary school years at a very white Aussie school. As soon as I entered my high school (which was also like 70% Asian) I found my perspective of my own worth shifting because of the positive influence around me. Hence my point on my post still stands.

[–]historybuff234 [score hidden] 2 hours ago So you still defend WMAF literary works because they make young Asian girls in the West feel beautiful? And, for that, you would still downplay the racist use of words like “Cho Chang”, which, really, is indistinguishable from garbage terms like “Ching Chong Ling Long”? If you repudiate your prior position that Asian girls can benefit from WMAF and the white gaze, maybe we can take your complaint in your current post more seriously. If your position has changed, however, maybe you can see why we discuss the insidious nature of the institution of WMAF, something that goes far beyond any particular problematic pairing.

[–]littlebushoodie[S] [score hidden] 2 hours ago i am not defending all WMAF works lol. As I have grown older I have shifted more towards consuming mostly just AMAF content (C dramas and Asian authors) and I absolutely recognise the problematic nature of a lot of WMAF relationships in books. As for the Cho Chang situation, I believe I would be very offended if I was to come across it now. However you must realise that years ago representation was sparse for any asian at all in middle school fiction so I had to take what I can.

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] 3 hours ago It's best not to do this. If this thread gets deleted it'll waste everybody's time spent here.

[–]historybuff234 [score hidden] 3 hours ago You can delete my above comment if you wish. I do think it is noteworthy that OP, who accuses this subreddit of being divisive, is someone who publicly praised WMAF stories for making her feel worthwhile and beautiful.

[–]kmoh74 [score hidden] 11 hours ago The guys leaving those kinds of comments are absolutely abhorrent, and they would totally change their tune if they had asian daughters. It's an emotional issue for some so they are going to give emotional answers. People who are upset about the issue are going to write a comment. For the vast majority that do not share that viewpoint, they are going to go about their daily lives.

[–]MapoLib [score hidden] 11 hours ago Relax, you are absolutely correct. The fact you saw more of those comments simply means those folks(probably young and emotional) spend more time occupying online space than the rest of the sub's users.

[–]owlficus [score hidden] 12 hours ago I totally agree, and have said some of the same things you have written here word for word- that shaming doesn’t work. I think most AMs agree with us- it’s just a very vocal minority (because they are hurt the most) who don’t see it. Plus you have a lot of guys who pretend to be asian on these subs, so keep that in mind too

The cancers of "AsiAN suBrEdDitS" can't stop and won't stop fapping to "Muh HolY CosMiC GodlY ladDEeEEEeeeEEEeeeee". These worthless as fuck simp f&gg0ts are the reason why aiNCELs remains a fucking joke. Jizzing to em ALLs counts as "aCtiVIsmmM".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-15T05:43:24+00:00

Khmer / Gaginang (self.aznidentity)

submitted 2 days ago by kkxlay1st Gen

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] 7 hours ago Khmer (and Desi) has been added as flair options in response to this thread. Feel free to suggest more.

Allowing in currycels is the same as letting in xm. R/ aiNCELs' "Pro-AsiaN" was bullshit from the very start.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-15T05:39:05+00:00

WM with a fetish takes the life of AF after he takes the lives of her parents (self.aznidentity)

submitted 5 hours ago by Hunting-4-Answers

[–]SignificanceShoddy76 [score hidden] 28 minutes ago locked comment AF: OMG that is so manly! Some AF are beyond saving, let the WM killers have them.

[–]toskaqe [M] [score hidden] 16 minutes ago Rule 4) don't alienate AW. 10 day ban for this low quality quip that implies violence is ok toward some. See this post.

Fucking plague of the "aSiAN SuBReddiTs". R/ aiNCELs will never be anything of worth as long as there are cockroach little f&gg0t simps ch1mping at any criticism of "muH lADeeE".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-14T06:36:42+00:00

Black couple rented to a Chinese American family when nobody would. Now, they're donating $5M to Black community. (self.aznidentity)

submitted 5 days ago by GinNTonic1

[–]blackierobinsun3 50 points 5 days ago If we work together we can go far

[–]mithrilbullion 4 points 4 days ago It's black people who are working against Asian interests so I don't see us working together.

[–]Sleepy_viva 3 points 2 days ago That is objectively false. Back americans has been the spear head for the civil rights and better treatment of marginalized groups for decades. Only a bigoted moron or someone who thinks tariq nasheed types are some how represented of the majority of a demographic would think that

[–]mithrilbullion 1 point 1 day ago black people lie and exaggerate so much they even have an emoji for it: 🧢 [removed]

[–]aznidentity-ModTeam[M] [score hidden] 23 hours ago locked comment Your post was removed for violating rule 3) Don't enable Divide & Conquer

Never fucking possible for r/ aiNCELs to ever be "pro-Asian" as long as it is run by a shit-munching poocel.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-14T06:31:27+00:00

"Shogun" is more of the same- as it comes to white savior and WMAF fantasies (self.aznidentity)

submitted 2 days ago by owlficus

[–]pianovirgin6902 [score hidden] 5 hours ago Do your work and promote AMWF

[–]owlficus [S] [score hidden] 5 hours ago This is not the answer. Promoting AMWF ultimately still uplifts white social supremacy because you’re saying white women are the pinnacle and benchmarking AM value to them. When other women see AMWF their reaction is not respect for the AM (only other AMs do)- but deepened desire for WMs

Time and time again the simp cockroaches are the fucking plague of "AsiaN" subreddits. Every setback to a sub can always be traced to the worthless f&gg0t simps.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-12T05:51:17+00:00

Chinese girls and korean guys? by Artistic_Ninja9789 in aznidentity

[–]lucidvision25 [score hidden] 6 hours ago That may be true for you - just don't try to speak like you represent all Chinese women.

[–]128lbs [score hidden] 5 hours ago

just don't try to speak like you represent all Chinese women

...I never claimed to speak for all Chinese women? But I do know many mainland Chinese women and most if not all of the ones I know/am friends with all are married to mainland Chinese men. It's honestly normal to prefer your own people, so don't get pissy about it. Nobody gets upset when white women marry white men, so why get upset when Chinese women marry Chinese men?

Worthless as fuck simp f&gg0ts are the fucking plague of "aSiAN" subreddits. Put them in the mod board and you get aiNCELs and r/ am.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-12T05:45:39+00:00

Why do I attract Asian friends who worship White people? (self.aznidentity)

submitted 1 day ago by Traditional_Dance999

[–]Gentle_prv [score hidden] 14 hours ago Is liking/being romantically interested in someone not your race really a bad thing? It’s not hurting anyone.

[–]My-Own-Way [score hidden] 3 hours ago locked comment We have garbage on aisle 4. Where are the mods? 🥱

[–]toskaqe[M] [score hidden] an hour ago locked comment Not against the rules and other users have already replied/downvoted/taken care of it. Replies like yours on the other hand attract even worse replies, such as below.

[–]OLD_WET_HOLE [score hidden] an hour ago locked comment We have an incel on aisle 15. Someone ring his mommy.

Impossible for an aiNCELs mod to not be a worthless simp f&gg0t kowtowing to xm.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-12T05:33:04+00:00

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 10, 2024 OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 2 days ago by AutoModerator - announcement

[–]ElimDegens 14 points 1 day ago look I hate pua/desperate shit as much as the next guy here, but I wonder what's the point of those drive-by snarky commenters who declare they're unsubscribing because of too much dating posts. would a sub that discusses esoteric philosophy and "alternative masculinity" 24/7 be better? I haven't seen anyone volunteer to discuss that or have certain readings or anything. it's best to try and effect change yourself rather than complaining

[–]Holiday_Wonder_6964 2 points 1 day ago The level of obsession with wf is odd tbh. It's almost as if you can't date a wf then you're not qualified to be giving advises. I just want to date af and it's almost frowned upon here. Still there are some good deep thoughts here that I end up coming back from time to time.

[–]magicalbird 3 points 13 hours ago It isn’t frowned upon. It’s about talking to max out your opportunities. If you truly want to keep dating only af then make sure she treats Asian men well. If only kept my dating aspects to af I’d have 0 options. I’ve dated and hooked up with many wf and lf.

[–]Holiday_Wonder_6964 -1 points 12 hours ago I mean... I just like af the best. Always have. Why wouldn't an af treat her men well? I mean what's this victim mindset? Can't make this shit up; doesn't take long before I get an advise from someone because he's "dated and hooked up with wf and lf". You don't know it but you're putting them on pedestals if you feel you have to say this out loud.

[–]magicalbird 2 points 12 hours ago It’s not a victim mindset. A lot more Asian women date and marry interracially than other races of women based on the data. Some of these Asian women start throwing Asian men under the bus. Don’t gaslight my own experiences. More power to you if you can find Asian women to date that like you which tends to be a pretty narrow number of you live in the west due to sheer demographics

[–]fakeslimshady 6 points 1 day ago There is at least an equal amount of guys like you what want to make it a big deal. I mean "obsession" really. I dont think anyone should be pushing preference on other men, its utterly ridiclous. I include the guys shaming AF preference too, its stupid tug of war. Probably troll driven

[–]ElimDegens 3 points 1 day ago

I include the guys shaming AF preference too

they're just trying to shame the lame clueless AMAF couples as a whole. many such cases I think they have some valid sentiments but don't know have the words to express them since they're big ideas. The basic ideas in my opinion are that some amaf couples are loser's prizes couples for both the man and woman, but especially for the men. that leads to what I said whole lotta lame couples where the am looks especially bad if his af gf shows semblances of white worship. yes, af in amaf can be very white worshiping, this is bigger than just romantic coupling.

[–]fakeslimshady 5 points 1 day ago You lost me there. Talk toreal AMAF and call them lame or losers and be ready to punched in the face or STFU with these hypothetical staw men

[–]Holiday_Wonder_6964 3 points 1 day ago See what I mean? Didn't have to wait long for someone to sham AMAF and putting wfs on pedestals.

[–]fakeslimshady 4 points 1 day ago I agree he did the amaf shaming part, where did he put wfs on pedestal.

[–]Holiday_Wonder_6964 1 point 1 day ago Lol u r right. Should have said xf. It's implied in his message.

[–]ElimDegens -1 points 1 day ago

amaf shaming

who's shaming? the asian bros in those old videos where stupid white pua/sexpest guys would hit on their girl in front of them and did nothing should be ashamed. in particular, there are many such cases where when some white guy gets enraged by an amaf, he's going to try to punk them in some way like the in-n-out video. we all can do better. even asian women talk about this in how some people can't be assertive also the subway guy who couldn't do anything to help out those af should be shamed too.

[–]fakeslimshady 2 points 1 day ago wtf does amaf have to do with it. harassment happens a lot more with amxf.

[–]ElimDegens 1 point 1 day ago does it? and who deals with it better? I remember the asian guy and his Latina gf giving some whyt dude and his asian gf the business in a road rage incident. lmk if you see some amaf power couple doing the same and beating up white losers, cuz that'd be some good shit look up something about the sexpest david bond, he amassed some following by hitting on a bunch of amaf couples. i've heard lots of similar stories where the am can't successfully deal with some non-asian hitting on his asian gf, or other types of harassment.

Yet another worthless collector of pmaf porn simp fggit. "BuTs i LikES MuH GoDlY lAdEEeEee dA mOSTtT"! Lu-chasing will be a permanent fixture on r/ am as long as Hong KUCK rang-chasers mod the sub.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-11T01:36:19+00:00

What he does besides clicking [remove] on every fucking aiNCELs thread 24/7 like a pathetic fggt.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-11T01:25:16+00:00

[Thoughts] I feel like our feelings are constantly being invalidated. (self.aznidentity)

submitted 1 day ago by countryboyiloveyouu

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 21 hours ago Blacck people have taken great risks and put into vast amounts of energy to shut down any and nearly all forms of invalidation. Sometimes they even talk rightful physical action. Do Asians do that? NOPE. Also, non Asian POC have a culture of rebellion and of listening to themsleves whereby Asians have a culture of adhering to and being obedient to the mainstream, this many Asians allow themselves to be brainwashed bc they were taught form a young age to be obedient and not think for ourselves. Meanwhile us asians are pathetic enough to still sit there are ponder ...wait...was that REALLY racist? And ONLY AFTER PROOF do we react...by then the moment is over. It's better to over react in the moment and get a few wrong shots than under react. Asian brains value precision, non asians value swiftness and power. By the time asians react if at all its too late. And hence the post above. LOL. Just saying.

[–]Ok_Slide5330 [score hidden] 19 hours ago It's always puzzled me. Historically Asians have always been rebels. Look at all the rebellions, protests, wars and deaths in Asian history. Even Koreans today have mass protests about everything. Asians in the West have been neutered.

[–]Exciting-Giraffe [score hidden] 17 hours ago this. Literally each dynasty in China was overthrown by rebels, and more recently the Shanghai lockdowns created huge riots too. Not to mention all the rich violent history of Japan, Korea, Khmer, Ayutthaya and the Dai Viet empires. bloodthirsty doesn't event cut it. I think it's the brutal history of asian american internment , and fear of armed police (and rightfully so).

[–]InstructionNarrow160 [score hidden] 9 hours ago Yes U.S. Asians can be aggressive like this but in America we are usually outnumbered so we aren’t in position to act out since we can’t get away with our bad behavior.

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago Disagree China's rebellions pale in comparison to non asian rebellions. After each rebellion, who won and who died and didn't reproduce? China is known for suppressing rebellions to the point where the non rebellious had more reproductive success.

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 9 hours ago you can just say you don't like Chinese people already. very yt of you to say, talking down on asians and complimenting non asians

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] 5 hours ago The privilege of the diaspora is to pick and choose what they like and dislike from both the old world and new world. Advocating for a cultural revolution among diaspora is modern chinese in spirit.

[–]InstructionNarrow160 [score hidden] 10 hours ago So in a way that caused most of the problems we face nowadays, in hindsight that wasn’t a good idea letting the less aggressive people have more success than more agressive people.

Absolutely nothing of fucking value from the worthless 24/7/365 ch1mping Bitch LU KKKUNT, yet "shE" is on the aiNCELs' mod team. Fucking proven ANTI-ASIAN LU KKKUNT is a mod of a self-proclaimed "Pro-AsIAN" sub. An absolute fucking joke. Currycel non-Asian head mod who is a proven shill for (((western politicians))). Endless infestation of these waste of air simp f&gs like tosWORTHLESSRETARDFGGITKUCK. Fapping simp roach f&gg0ts have always been the plague of these "AsiaN" subs and always will be.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-11T01:07:29+00:00

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2 of the top 10 companies in the US are run by East Asians by archelogy in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 5 hours ago They could start foundations that help Asians on the down low. Plenty of Jewish CEOs used to back in the day

[–]InstructionNarrow160 [score hidden] 4 hours ago Good idea

How do you deal with people liking Anime cosplay but not inviting Asians into their friend circle? by Zealousideal_Plum533 in asianamerican

[–]Alaskan91 5 points 14 hours ago Just bc they like anime doesn't mean they like asians. It's means they like to use and consume parts of asian cukture that benefit them for entertainment purposes. Just like how some hood people both eat chinese fast food and also like the threaten or even shoot the takeout places and rob them for cash. Why can't asians understand that liking parts of the cuktuee has nothing to do with liking the people? This is almost as bad as old school asians saying, but he can't be racist, he like chow mein!

2 of the top 10 companies in the US are run by East Asians by archelogy in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago But are they doing anything for asians in America? Blacck ceos are always respected only if they have succeeded and ALSO given back to their community. I find asians, esp east asians, don't have that community mindset outside of their own atomized families. It's like as if that is too many layers of conplication to handle or something .

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 9 hours ago why so negative?

[–]0iq_cmu_students [score hidden] 5 hours ago Its not necessarily being negative, its telling it like it is. I agree with both points, that more asians CEOs is good and that those asian ceos aren't doing much with regards to promoting asians in america. Indian CEOs too. They are more willing to help their buddies get into positions of power, but could not care less about the general indian american population. Ask them about certain issues that negatively affect asians like DEI policies and asian hate crimes. They will give you the usual corporate roundabout bunch of nothing speak while simultaneously advocating for blm.

[Thoughts] I feel like our feelings are constantly being invalidated. by countryboyiloveyouu in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 15 hours ago Disagree China's rebellions pale in comparison to non asian rebellions. After each rebellion, who won and who died and didn't reproduce? China is known for suppressing rebellions to the point where the non rebellious had more reproductive success.

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[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 21 hours ago For All Asians: obsession with risk avoidance

[Thoughts] I feel like our feelings are constantly being invalidated. by countryboyiloveyouu in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 21 hours ago Blacck people have taken great risks and put into vast amounts of energy to shut down any and nearly all forms of invalidation. Sometimes they even talk rightful physical action. Do Asians do that? NOPE. Also, non Asian POC have a culture of rebellion and of listening to themsleves whereby Asians have a culture of adhering to and being obedient to the mainstream, this many Asians allow themselves to be brainwashed bc they were taught form a young age to be obedient and not think for ourselves. Meanwhile us asians are pathetic enough to still sit there are ponder ...wait...was that REALLY racist? And ONLY AFTER PROOF do we react...by then the moment is over. It's better to over react in the moment and get a few wrong shots than under react. Asian brains value precision, non asians value swiftness and power. By the time asians react if at all its too late. And hence the post above. LOL. Just saying.

Fucking worthless as fuck f&gg0t simps spewing "GuD iDEaa" and "alASkKKKuNt iSn'T NeGaTivE, StfU". It is ALWAYS cockroach f&g simps that fuck up these so-called "ASiAN Subs". "FuCk Pros-AsiAN, GotTa SAVE Em ALLSSsss".

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-07T07:04:32+00:00

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 03, 2024 OC self.AsianMasculinity

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[–]Albernathy101 -6 points 17 hours ago

Nikki Haley wins the Vermont Republican primary

What does anyone think of Nikki Haley being the first Asian president? (for those who think South Asian and East Asian are the same). Would people get disappointed that the first Asian president will be an AF rather than AM? What about Nikki Haley being married to a WM? Though her husband doesn't look all white and appears mixed with something else. May even be a hapa. His bio says he was adopted. Her daughter is married a Black male and he is commonly seen in her campaign. So overall, not much Asian male representation in her life.

[–]stupefiery 4 points 5 hours ago She's asian just like obama is white

Can't take aiNCELS seriously, especially the "We'rE Non-PArTiSAn" shit.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-07T06:51:40+00:00

WMAF heckles Asian male comedianOC self.AsianMasculinity

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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4H_Ibzvby2 Lots of internalised racism on display here. The shit that Asian men have to deal with.

[–]throwmiamivelvet -10 points 5 hours ago Are you guys so blind in your WMAF rage that you ignore what's actually going on? The comedian initiated conversation with the audience and her about whether that's her husband. That's right in the beginning. HE opened up the can of worms himself. HE should expect to be heckled. Full stop guys. IF the gender was reversed and the AM in a AMWF got asked the same question by the AF comedian, I would expect EVERYONE in this sub to congradulate him for standing up for his WF wife.

[–]GinNTonic1 3 points 5 hours ago Nah most Asian guys would prob just laugh it off cause it's just a comedy show.

[–]My-Own-Way 2 points 2 hours ago Can’t tell if you’re an AW or a WM. It’s the only reason I can think of as to why you’re overly offended. Yes, he did ask her if the guy sitting next to her was her husband, but she didn’t have to announce to everyone that her husband is white because nobody asked about his race and everyone can see that he’s white. By mentioning his race when there’s no reason to she is giving off the vibe that she’s a superior Asian just because she’s with a WM. Do you get it now?

[–]kennystyle33 6 points 7 hours ago That dude seems antagonistic towards everybody on this sub. Not a single positive comment from that guy

[–]My-Own-Way 2 points 6 hours ago I see, definitely will keep an eye out on that.

[–]iamsobasic 6 points 7 hours ago Exactly. If the comedian said “hey is that WHITE guy your husband?” I would understand her reaction. But he just asked her if he’s her husband, and then she brought race into it. People like her are insufferable.

[–]Chudnovksy -4 points 4 hours ago Thank you for sharing the back story. I was wondering why she was so angry

[–]throwmiamivelvet 0 points 4 hours ago There's no backstory bro, the comedian started to interact with the audience and mentions about the husband what do you expect he opened up the can of worms

What happens when arcel-approved worthless cucks are in charge, nonstop subversion from xm, simp f&gs, and KKKUNT Lus.

Chousiyindu · 2024-03-07T06:40:24+00:00

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Is there any psychological theory available for the minority self-hate phenomenon? If not, I call you all to contribute your thoughts in the comments by Direct-Beginning-438 in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 13 hours ago Ur over thinking this. It's confucisnism. East Asians are taught to self.blame and internalize rather than externalizr and blame society like other races. Ther races blame society for being racist. East asian blame themsleves, taught from a young age to take responsibility for everything. South asians are very social and great at making deep social networks within their own ethnicity and have deep ingroup to counter racism so they adjust better. I've written extensively about this in my posts and comments but feel free to overanalyze this like u have done above. Remember East asian society is conformist To whatever is around them. Kids are praised for obedience ad if they are dogs. Chinese ppl literally praise their kids for being "guai" its ridiculous. Those that try to act white are being the most East asian. This is why you see crap like east asian scrimping and saving for piano lessons. No originality. Just trying to be better European with a hint of asian flavor. This is why short asian dudes blame their height on not getting women bc they are seeing the framework in white ppl eyes. When Jewish ppl and some Hispanics are even shorter and get women just fine bc they have great ingroup benefit to counter racism. Marry an asian guy and other asians won't take risks to help each other. Not true for south asians or Jewish or Hispanics or....anybody really. Would even argue that you are using the Jungian white framework and trying to apply it to asians. So ur doing the same thing. Trying to apply white framework for asians. Sad.

Don't be fooled by the racist narrative that says: "We don't Need Diversity". Here's why. by archelogy in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 [score hidden] 21 hours ago U win some u lose some that's the natural course of things. But east asian esp chinese don't even want to fight, citing risk after risk. It's always east asians that think this and primarily chinese

'externalizr'. Fucking retard. Same mindless banshee bitch spasms at Asians 24/7/365. This is aiNCELs, laughable shithole "Pro-AsiaN sub" with an ANTI-ASIAN LU Bitch mod/Poocel NON-ASIAN head mod. The only 'active' part of the sub is the pervasive censorship.

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