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[–]Chousiyindu[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

An analysis and guide on dating Western raised Asian women (self.aznidentity)

submitted 1 day ago by joistheyo

[–]owlficus 6 points 1 day ago I agree on your main point that women (on the younger side) value social optics above other criteria. But on the point that it’s easier to get a top tier WF than a mid tier AF- how true is that exactly? The AFs aren’t rejecting all AMs who ask them out- that’s not why there are so many WMAFs. The reason is because all these WMs are asking them out, while AMs stare from afar and then eventually convince themselves that they didnt want AFs anyway.

[–]ssslae [score hidden] 21 hours ago

I agree on your main point that women (on the younger side) value social optics above other criteria. But on the point that it’s easier to get a top tier WF than a mid tier AF- how true is that exactly? The AFs aren’t rejecting all AMs who ask them out- that’s not why there are so many WMAFs. The reason is because all these WMs are asking them out, while AMs stare from afar and then eventually convince themselves that they didnt want AFs anyway.

You're overly simplifying the problem. AM have the ick stigma attached to them more than any other group of men living in the west. In addition to that, the media portrayed and society consensus of Asian men as bland. If you have been conditioned since birth to see yourself that way, it's not easy to approach women, especially when toxic Asian women on social media publicized their 'No Dating Asian' policies. You don't have to take my word for it, just ask White male internet daddy Jordan Peterson. He's making millions off the insecurity of young men. It's not a doom and gloom. It's slowly changing for the better for Asian men. It just takes time, and it doesn't help when people say "If I can do it, so can you." That method of tough love doesn't work for, just ask the people who use that method on fat people.

[–]owlficus [score hidden] 13 hours ago Trust me, I do understand where you’re coming from. Unless you grow up with positive reinforcement yea it’s going to affect you. This deserves a much deeper discussion. My only point with my original comment is that AMs need to stop coping by running away from the real battle - WMs - and finding comfort in raging on AFs instead

Funny how this cringe as fuck simp f&gg0t claims others are "CopInG". F&g copes by fapping every day and night to "mUh HolY PORNO LU lADEEeEEeeS".