Embarrassed about dating a white man as a 25 year old Asian woman (self.aznidentity)

submitted 23 hours ago by foxyhater18

[–]beyondempty11 [score hidden] 5 hours ago Did these people read your post?? They’re acting like you only dated yt men in past. You have dated Asian men before so clearly you don’t yt worship so I don’t understand all these accusations and judgements in the comments 🤨. So weird. If it didn’t work, it didn’t work. You can’t force connections. I think you should go on this date and give it a chance.. you just may never know.

[–]ElkSuperb8460 [score hidden] 5 hours ago You know what don't feel bad for dating a white man. You date who you want. As long as your date isn't fetishizing you or you dating him to get back at your own culture

[–]tiggermillion [score hidden] 10 hours ago You shouldn’t judge people on their race Just enjoy your date, if it’s a right match it’s a right match if not it’s not.

[–]Xerio_the_Herio [score hidden] 10 hours ago The heart's gonna do what the heart's gonna do... but look within first is my biased reply. You will have 1000% more things in common and relatable.

[–]Realistic_Ad3354 [score hidden] 11 hours ago Look, we are okay if you date outside your race. It would be hypocritical if Asian guys gate keep the women from “dating out”. This is not the 1900 and we don’t live in the Middle East where religions are used to bound women. Also I live in CZ, so most of my friends and social circle are from former Soviet states. Russia, Poland, Slovakia, Hungary, Serbia, Kazakhstan and Balkans such as Romania and Albania. Most of these countries have a different concept of “whiteness” compared to the USA for example. And some of them are not even white - Turkish people are very very mixed. Some of my Turkish friends looks exactly like us Asians or those tribes people from China. I think as long as you both love each other dearly. Most Asian communities are open to support.

[–]My-Own-Way [score hidden] 13 hours ago Shame, shame, shame, ain’t never beating the allegations. Don’t know why you’re even asking. Are you looking for confirmation bias? You do you, just don’t blame it on AM for the choices you make in life.

[–]ElimDegens [score hidden] 11 hours ago

Are you looking for confirmation bias

there already is on this post, similar to asianamerican and other milquetoast spaces

[–]foxyhater18[S] [score hidden] 12 hours ago Honestly, I was hoping for more insight into why I feel this way and see if there were other people who had similar experiences of wanting to be with an Asian man but branching out. I have dated other races before but it’s just something about dating a white man that feels embarrassing

[–]toskaqe [score hidden] 10 hours ago Being hyper-conscious is far better than being clueless. That's about all you can ask for.

[–]asianmovement [score hidden] 13 hours ago Sometimes you gotta date out once just to see what you genuinely need to have in a relationship when it comes to cultural compatibility that lacks when it comes to dating outside the race.

[–]foxyhater18[S] [score hidden] 12 hours ago That actually makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your comment

[–]Ramen-Prince-8824 1 point 1 day ago I respect that you feel shame for being with someone who isn’t Asian. It shows you do care about your culture and people. Deep down you know once you sleep w/ white guy, you will never be viewed the same. I just hope you don’t end up like other Asian women who date white guys only to be used up as an exotic novelty, discarded, traumatized, and regretfully that in the future no quality Asian man will ever choose you as his wife. I know I wouldn’t. As an Asian American male, I don’t have a problem with Asian women dating White guys as long as they don’t disparage Asian men and give dating Asian men a real effort, not being indoctrinated to only like anyone but Asian men. There are good white men out there but most genuine good hearted white guys move to Asia.

[–]My-Own-Way [score hidden] 6 hours ago

There are good white men out there but most genuine good hearted white guys move to Asia.

LOL no, don’t spread false information.

[–]Austronesian_SeaGod [score hidden] 1 hour ago lmao yeah the fuck is that user smoking.

Open support of pmaf KKKUNTS. Like I said time and time again, simp f&gg0ts are the fucking cancer of 'Asian' subreddits. Do NOT believe aiNCELS is "difFerEnt" from r/ asianamerican.