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Why are people in this sub so obsessed with having success dating Western women as an Asian man in this current political climate (me too movement, toxic feminism, toxic western culture in general, etc) by ConversationOk2563 in aznidentity

[–]Kronoform [score hidden] 36 minutes ago So don’t you think if white women or XF desired Asian men as much as how XM desire Asian women, we would already see many AM with non Asian women? Why do we so see many gay asian men with white men? Gay Asian men get with white men at a higher rate than Asian women do. No one here is obsessed with only dating Asian women. At least for me, growing up they were the ones who showed the most interest. These subs go so overboard with this Asian guys waiting for some Asian woman excuse why they are alone and is disingenuous coping mechanism. No matter how much people on these subs want Asian men and to forget about Asian women, it will never happen because statistically Asian women still choose Asian men more than any other race of women. Best thing to do is not worry about who dates who and just worry about how you can make your own life better. Starts by working one yourself both mentally and physically. Not blaming other groups for why you are in the situation you are in.

[–]hotpotato128 [score hidden] 2 hours ago 54% Wow!

[–]Kronoform [score hidden] 2 hours ago It’s a study that was done in 2013 not recently. It’s just a number angry guys throw out there to be justify their blame on a certain group they despise. Even though Asian women still choose Asian men more than any other women do.

[–]casiwo1945 0 points 4 hours ago Nice cope. The data was collected up to 2015 and the study was published in 2017. pewresearch org/social-trends/2017/05/18/1-trends-and-patterns-in-intermarriage/ If you have better evidence, feel free to present them. Otherwise, any excuse you make is just cope ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[–]Kronoform [score hidden] 3 hours ago So that study was almost 7 years ago. Why don’t you send me a study that’s current. The onus shouldn’t be put on me since I’m not the one making statements just so you can make a point to make yourself feel better about being unhappy. Here’s a stat. The sub AMWF had over 12K members while both the AFWM and WMAF sub have 2400 members total. That’s 5 times as many members! So does that mean there’s a lot more Asian males who only want to date white? There’s a lot more who are open to doing it unlike how you claim Asian men being obsessed about only being with only Asian women. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ This is a very good write up by squatsandrice calling out people like you. It applies to any radical person who blames other groups on why their life is so shitty and never himself. Magicalbird wrote: I shared a reasonable opinion on based on this post. This is the issue. What you said was not a reasonable opinion, it's your personal insecurities flaring up. You're saying I'm being extremely condescending but you're the one who is making up lies to prop up an agrument (that no one has made) so you can feel justified on your own self-hating beliefs. You being a constant contributor to the sub need to be called out for perpetuating this behavior. Don't believe me? Think I'm bullshiting? Keep reading and I'll prove it to you: Magicalbird wrote:This is why I laugh at those who want to promote AMAF unity. Who is promoting AMAF unity here? Not me. Do I speak up when I feel someone is being unfairly treated? Yeah I definitely have a tendency to do that more than others. A lot of the times it has been regarding AFs, but I have also done it with Black women, White women and even defending AMWF relationships in instances where they have been unfairly targeted. It just so happens this sub has a tendency to point fingers at Asian women more than any other demographic (and it's only increased the recently year/months, partly because of shit-tier takes from you magicalbird ) Is it possible that I can stand up for Asian women objectively and also promote AMAF unity and simp for Asian women? Sure that's definitely a possibility, however I implore you find evidence of that from my 8 years of posting history to support that. You're not going to find any, because it's not something I believe in. I can promise you not only will you not find any evidence of ANY racial preferences/promotion to the AM community from my side, you will find one of the MOST REPEATED THINGS I say is "do not concern yourself with demographics that are not you [Asian men]" Now, onto you and all the other self-hating Asian men on this sub. We all know there are some insecures about being Asian and white worshipping tendencies from a certain group of men on here. These traits sound bad, but tbh they're not that bad. These are thoughts and feelings a lot, if not the majority, of asian men experience some time just growing up in America. This is why I don't like to call out people for these things, healing is a process and a lot of these feelings can not just be snapped on or off. However, what I absolutely abhor, what I can not excuse, is when men don't even have the ability to contain their insecurities and feel the need to contaminate the sub, to get other men to agree to their beliefs, at the cost of all of us, just so they can feel better about themselves. Disgusting behavior. How is this done? Let's continue with the breakdown: Magicalbird wrote: If you truly want to be with AF you have to really make sure she’s a loyal one unlike these self haters. Magicalbird wrote: Go for women of all races. I do include Asian women. I say make sure she’s loyal as I did in the original comment. We can do a separate deep dive on your 'date women of all races' comment, for now let us focus on the main issue. This is what I'm talking about when your social skills are lacking. You are unknowingly showing us your true intentions. What you're communicating with these messages is basically shouting "I'm scared to admit what my actual views are" The thing about intentions is that over time your true intentions will always be exposed. Let's take what you said. "don't date an [demographic xyz] unless she's loyal". Sure I agree with you. But this implies that it's okay to date any other demographic even if they're not loyal. Do I believe this is your exact message? Not explicitly, but it is apparent that subconsciously you have a bias against demographic xyz and think they are below other demographics of women. The standard is not equal. The best part? These are the same men that try to say I simp for Asian women when I point this out. They think treating all women by the same standard is simping for Asian women. And sadly, that makes sense for them because they think white is better than asian, therefore it makes obvious sense that treating Asian women and white women the same is simping. Repulsive. You might want to pin it on me, you might want to make it seem like there's multiple people promoting AMAF unity, but reality from what i've seen is that NO ONE promotes AMAF unity. Just because you feel bad about being an Asian man yourself does not make it okay to lie about what I'm saying so you can feel better about yourself. I do not put words in your mouth, so please do the same for me. I never agreed with disciple888 and his messaging, yet if he was here he'd call for your heads on the chopping block first. This crazy that this sub has gone so far into the hate spectrum that I have to pick-up the torch on some of these topics. I'm not done yet. Let's take a look at the thing you self-haters would love to avoid: the reality of america. So typically the behavior pattern that I see here is men upset that asian women treat reject asian men, and therefore asian men should ditch asian women and go for other women. Yeah I agree with this theory, however this is not reality. Reality is, unfortunately Asian women pick Asian men higher than any other demographic. And White women pick Asian men less than any other demographic. And also unfortunately, for every Asian woman that says not to date asian men, there is a white woman that says all asians are chinese spies and our rights in america should be limited, and we should all go back to china. Unfortunately, racism is real and if your logic is 'x% of individuals in y demographic are bad to us Asian men so we should disengage entirely' then we definitely should not be dating white women, (this includes white-passing hispanic women) and black women. And if we do date them, we should date them less than we date Asian women because they prefer us less. This is a reality that many men here do not want to face. They actually do not care about logic, they do not care about benefitting asian men, the only thing they care about is lessening their own shame of being Asian. And for them, that is finding a white partner. Truly, the very definition of the weakest link.”

Always crawls outta his shithole for the SAME FUCKING TOPICS. Spewing the SAME TIRING DIARRHEA-LACED SHIT. Literal waste of life poocel with an obsession.