Does having the same name as other people ever make you depressed?

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-03-17T13:40:20+00:00

My name is pretty unusual. Worldwide, there must be about 1000 people who are my namesakes, mostly living in Scandinavia. Yeah, it's of Norse origins.

I never liked my name. I always have been the ugly girl with the weird name. LOL

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-10T15:01:14+00:00

They are trying too hard to get our attention, the only one they get from women.

These sad sacks keep harping on about the same things I've heard countless times before.

That's why I don't even bother to reply to them anymore.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-09T20:13:10+00:00

In my view, involuntary celibate men do exist, but only in specific cases. I can see a physically or mentally disabled guy struggling to get women's attention. Nonwhite men living in a white country can face dating woes, but most of them are just white worshippers.

The majority of the guys who claim to be incel are just volcels. It's not that all women reject them, just the ones they are attracted to (read: pretty girls). Every time they say "I have no standards" or " I would date any girl as long as she loves me", I burst out laughing.

Weeks ago, I scrolled through their main subreddit. A guy was complaining about being rejected by the women he approached. Nearly all of the girls were gorgeous. The ordinary looking girl was not only described briefly but also criticized.

Another one said he could date a "1/10" (I loathe these terms!), but he wasn't interested in them because they aren't his type. Not to mention guys complaining about only getting matches with black women. It sums up their mindset.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-08T14:51:01+00:00

I want to be sexually desired and loved by men like the other girls are. I want men to approach and respectfully flirt with me. Am I asking too much?

Weeks ago, on Reddit, I read a guy's account of his sexual experiences with women. The way he talked about them and their bodies... he really appreciated these girls.

And I deeply envied them.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-04T15:09:22+00:00

I deal with malecels, MGTOWs since 2010, so I know it's easier to make a cat learn algebra than reason with you guys, but whatever. You guys complain about being rejected by women, but even the "awkward, hapa, 5'4 guy" thinks he is entitled to a hot white girl. Girls like me are not even deemed female to begin with. Most men, sex havers or "involuntary" celibates, would take any woman ... as long as she is at least one of these things: fair-skinned, slim, young, or cute. A tall mixed race (black/white) awful looking girl will be turned down left, right, and centre.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-04T13:30:15+00:00

I'd like to add that there is no such as malecels just volcels in denial, unless in cases of physical handicap.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-03T20:58:16+00:00

I want to feel empathy for male incels. I swear to God. And in some ways I do. Dating and relationships are hard, and yes, lookism and heightism are a thing, but it’s hard to empathize with a group that is so demonstrably misogynistic and delusional.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-03T12:01:21+00:00

If you think so, I have a bridge to sell you. The majority of the girls here are mocked and turned down by below or average looking guys. Your advice is best suited to men, namely the ones who claim "No woman wants me!". It's definitely much easier for a hideous guy to find a mate than for a hideous girl to do the same. The truth is many, many men despise unattractive women. They don't talk and even avoid eye contact with us.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-03T00:35:27+00:00

That's an interesting approach to life. Most of the days I think my life it's over while on others I hope things will get better. It's hard to keep our heads up while our world is crumbling down. Btw I wish we could strike more civil conversation like this one with men. Sometimes I need a male perspective on things, but most of the guys who come here are just obnoxious sexually frustrated males.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-02T22:16:23+00:00

I am partly mentalcel, partly awful-looking. Most of my mental issues stem from my ugliness and how I was treated because of it.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-02-02T01:33:12+00:00

Sexually frustrated males... They waste their lives orbiting or simping for Barbies, got screwed up, and then bark AWALT. I feel immense Schadenfreude.

Curus-Bachleda · 2021-01-26T12:25:44+00:00

Every time I read something like that I know right off the bat it was written by a fugly or average man. I seldom see handsome men write these things, although they can be equally vile.

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