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[–]Vulptex[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I think it definitely intensifies the problem, and maybe it's the reason it's significant at all. But that's not going to change. It can't be the cause, because I notice things being off even if they don't bother me, like my hands being too big. It's also quite the coincidence that all the bothersome features are sex differences.

[–]hfxB0oyA 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That makes me wonder if you were able to lean into the awareness of these differences and go hyper masculine (working out, etc), if that would somehow result in you being happy with them. I understand that constitutes an enormous mental leap; not suggesting you can just mosey into that - this is just me speculating.

[–]Vulptex[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That won't work. It would also make me more miserable because I'm not hyper-masculine.

It's not society.

[–]hfxB0oyA 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Crummy situation all around.