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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Or she can’t communicate properly.

[–]BISH 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

He's not stupid.

The trade off is he has to hear her complain. He realizes he has it pretty good.

She takes the children with her to urgent care; while he watches the game, or wherever he's doing. He's loving it.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This sounds horrible. I love kids. And I’d love to take my kids and have time with them. Phrasing this as a chore makes me irate. I hate when someone pretends they are pulling one one me, when I am just doing what I want.

I couldn’t handle this kind of shit. I’d be a ghost.

For example, I read books to my kid every night, when they get older, it turns into more advanced books. It was a special time with my family that I cherish. That’s not a chore, it’s a gift.

I would go nuts if my significant other treated it as like time off from a job. Like why the fuck did you have kids, you disgusting whore. And then ask treated me like I’m some kind of work horse, to be used to save her from her clearly overwhelming task of hanging out with children.

[–]BISH 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I would go nuts if my significant other treated it as like time off from a job.

You'd watch your children while your spouse went to urgent care, right?

I doubt he's pulling his fair share.

I had to watch it again to confirm.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yea. I love my kids. I’d “watch” them whenever. I take my brothers kids whenever he wants to go out.