I don’t think that’s entirely true. A lot of parents have personality disorders, which affects their children regardless of sexual orientation. I guess the problem we gay men have is that people who are sensible are afraid to give constructive criticism, so a lot of gay men do weird things without realising they are bad, like wearing assless chaps and harnesses on the public streets, crossdressing in front of children, having unprotected sex with strangers or taking illicit drugs. What gay men need is criticism for our behaviours. Problem is, most of the people who are not afraid to criticise us believe that homosexuality is always wrong, which makes any form of criticism against us look "homophobic" to liberals. Another problem is that a lot of gay men have low self esteem and do not know how to process criticism, which is also a problem with a lot of heterosexual millennials and zoomers in western countries today.