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[–]jet199Instigatrix 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You should listen to the disaffected podcast when you get home.

Lying and gaslighting is part of the abuser's mindset. Everything is someone else's fault.

You shouldn't get over it because you should have good boundaries to protect yourself and those you love in the future.

You'll never convince them you are right or get a real apology though. You will have to let that go.