Oxford dictionary gives me: "the action by a pedophile of preparing a child for a meeting, especially via an internet chat room, with the intention of committing a sexual offense."

RAINN group gives: "One tool common to those who sexually abuse kids is grooming: manipulative behaviors that the abuser uses to gain access to a potential victim, coerce them to agree to the abuse, and reduce the risk of being caught."

It seems to me that this is a common definition: the person needs to be sexualizing with the intent of doing abuse, rather than just sexualizing in general.

Again, I am in agreement with you on this issue of sex teaching and LGBT agendas. Schools have no business sexualizing and indoctrinating kids especially kindergartners ffs. I just don't fully agree with the word choice.