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[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I agree. There are fewer and fewer women who 1. Aren't socialite followers and, 2. Know how to support themselves/loved ones. There are lots of tough, smart women who can support themselves and can help their loved ones with careful reason. But there are very few who aren't socialite followers, in my limited experience.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly. And sadly these girls seem to exist only as certain character types ( e.g. this: https://saidit.net/s/Psychology/comments/6469/introduction_mediator_infp_personality/ ) and usually hide them themselves very good in most social contexts. I searched 4 years for mine. :)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They do exist, they are just struggling to 1. Be themselves and 2. Find others like them. I know you know how it feels to wade in a sea of meager minds and fearful hearts.