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[–]Rah 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

Highly depends on why he cant provide. If he is invalid physically, then its noble. If he is healthy and can look for something, its only circunstance. If he has a sugar momma, and is raising his kids, thats a terrible example and he is not a good father (better than an absent one that left the kids on purpose, however)

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

We need men to do everything. Work, make tons of money, some how be there for the kids, not get his kids stolen from him in court, etc.

So basically, men have to be perfect. There’s no winning here.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Then don't make kids, be like jet199

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I like jet. I’m pretty sure he hates me. Lol.

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

That person only likes smelly jews

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well. I also like socks. I think he may be the most entertaining person in here, for me. So 🤷🏼‍♂️

[–]Rah 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You can try your best, and by doing so, you will do God's order so that you also attempt your best to live by His word. If it is demanding that you do everything, do it. Winning is not described by not losing, but rather doing everything in your reach to win.

The only 100% losing bet is not trying; you may lose less, but the conscience clawing your head will eventually become unbearable. Seen it too many times to count.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So, as long as I am trying, and putting in effort, you would say I am not a dead beat dad?

And with elon musk, what is he suppose to do?

I realize he is not there, but he’s a billionaire. He works a lot.

[–]Rah 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well if you are trying to be a good dad, and it shows, no, of course you are not.

Elon Musk could have stuck with his wives and not separate. But none of his marriages were sanctified by God, so he separated.

First I said that he is not that much of a great father, but not a complete "deadbeat", hence, at least he shows he tries to be a somewhat good father. The issue is twice he didnt try hard enough for his children. I dont know the circunstance of his separations, but he consented and didnt fight for them; as difficult as it is, a father must fight for his family, for the sake of his children, despite of the shortcomings of his wife.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don’t think you are asking too much. I can generally agree with you. And I understand what you mean.