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[–]jet199 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Part of the reason sex work is soul crushing is that a woman on her own with a client is always aware of the risk her client could kill her and no one would care so she's never going to speak her mind or speak up for herself.

A TiM in that situation is fully away he can just punch the guy in the face.

[–]FlippyKing 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good point! Then, the biggest thing at risk for the TiM is the fantasy. There's a pretty consistent thing there with them, preservation of the lies and the fantasy is paramount, or: the more things change, the more they stay the same.