Wife doesn't understand that it wasn't his choice to transition

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[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

suffice to say we went from yelling to sitting in silence, sobbing in each others arms to punching a wall…a couple times…

His wife punched a wall? What a strangely unwomanly thing for her to do. Maybe she's a trans man in a woman's body....

I needed her to eventually see me as her wife, not as her husband that looks like a girl now.

Well, I'm certain that his wife does not see him as her husband that looks like a girl now.

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Also, top reply in the thread:

My best friend said to me: "I will never see you as a girl, for me you will always be <deadname>"
My response? "Dude, in 5 years you will feel extremely uncomfortable calling me anything EXCEPT a girl"
Him: "yeah, I could see that..."

Woosh! Tranny really didn't get what his friend was telling him.

[–]Davethe_blank_ 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

that's so fucked up. Imagine if this were the other way around and the wife said I'm your husband now. The audacity to think someone is just going to become gay for you is fucking insane and selfish as fuck.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine if this were the other way around and the wife said I'm your husband now.

I knew someone that happened to. Wife decided she was a man and they were gay. Marriage fell apart because of it.

[–]alladd 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Porn addict gleefully describes the campaign of advanced gaslighting he is waging on his soon to be ex-wife as a consequence of her quite accurate perception of him.

[–]Thinger 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Mental illness is indeed a terrible thing.

[–]jw329 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

The trans subreddits are entertaining. Even before the trans agenda people normally chose terrible partners to begin with. This is just another reason to add to the broken families section.

[–]Jiminy 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Also Reddit has lots of fake stories often written by bots to try to mold society

[–]jw329 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

this is a good point

[–]MarkJefferson 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

wait till you start estrogen and the empathy kicks into OVERDRIVE

What an unnecessarily gendered way of thinking. Maybe have that empathy for her before you take in a bunch of chemicals that turn you into a circus freak. What good is empathy after that?

[–]QueenBread 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's not even how estrogen works.

[–]LordoftheFliesAmeri-kin 2.0. Pronouns: MegaWhite/SuperStraight/UltraPatriarchy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What an unnecessarily gendered way of thinking.

It's just part of the rules for the character that they LARPing as. Women have an innate +4 bonus to empathy as a character trait.