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[–]LordoftheFliesAmeri-kin 2.0. Pronouns: MegaWhite/SuperStraight/UltraPatriarchy 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

TL;DR: I'm trying to find something special about my utter disinterest in anything but Chad-tier cock.

[–]Clown_Chan 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's not like men are attracted to average Jane, either. Only tiny minority of hypersexualized, underage bimbos are getting all the attention on the internet and even get payed literall milions of dollars just for literally existing by the milions of pathetic men from the entire world.

So it's men who are the most shallow gender.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

These women's brains are so broken by porn and hookup culture that they think they're either messed up or some sort of special minority for not wanting insta-sex with every man in their field of vision. I'm glad most of these commenters are talking sense, but it would be a different story on an LGBTQ alphabet sub.

[–]Clown_Chan 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Nice projecting, scrote.🤡👌

Majority of hetero women don't watch porn which is made by men and almost exclusively for men, also majority of us don't participate in so called "hook up culture". If I recall correctly, 70-80% Tinder users are MEN, barely any woman use it, besides prostitutes, sugarbabies and OnlyFans girls.

[–]grassfed 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You have some experience

[–]thethrowawayReddit refugee 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My face when theyre rediscovering monogamous relationships in the comments and calling it "demisexuality". Its normal to feel more attraction to someone you are close with, thats why we are a mainly monogamous species.

[–]QueenBread 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A woman who has sex risks a life-altering consequence to her body. A man who has sex risks to be nagged about it.

Men aren't very picky. Women usually are. For obvious reasons.

Women find women attractive because it's once more a biological instinct. They need to know what men find hot. "This gal's dress is so sexy! Would I look good on it too?"

There's a reason gay men organise orgies and lesbians don't. Even when they are homosexual, their instinctive approach to sexuality remains.

[–]LtGreenCo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

It's evolutionary psychology. It all boils down to the children.

Women are generally less attracted to looks and more attracted to wealth, confidence, strength, stoicism, because subconsciously they're looking for a provider and protector for themselves and their children. Men are generally more attracted to looks, specifically youthful appearance, child-bearing hips, nicely sized breasts, because subconsciously they want young healthy would-be mothers to carry and care for their children.

What Mother Nature didn't account for is how we'd evolve the brain-power to take that winning formula and fuck it all up with politics and culture.

[–]LyingSpirit472 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (16 children)

Honestly, I don't even think it's gender-based anymore and more based on the other form of the self:

If you are low on the totem pole of society and you need to improve your station, you seek out people who can improve your station: The wealthy, the charismatic, the special in some way- because you consciously need someone who'll give you a better life and can give your children a better life.

If you have a great life as it is, you don't need to bother with that shit and you can settle for someone who'll just look good on your arm, because you don't need to bother with making yourself better. You already won, you don't need to go further up to think your kids will do better.

This explains why, as women have gotten more and more equality- and thus more and more women are winning at life than there were traditionally- the attraction has changed to the same general looks-based attraction men have.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

You're wrong. Having a partner whose only quality is that she/he looks good, is something that works only for short flings. If you think of a serious, long-time partner only as someone who looks good on your arm, then it means you consider the other person as an object.

And do you know who considers a sexual partner as an object or prop? Men. Not women. And not even all men, as there's also men who genuinely want a partner and not a prop.

You can have the most amazing life ever, but if you choose your partner only as an object to show off and have sex with, you don't want a partner but a prostitute.

[–]LyingSpirit472 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

And to say that ignoring that more and more people - both men and women- are perfectly fine with just short flings, and that most people in this world truly only see the other person as a prop. They don't care if their partner is a good long-term partner, if they can help the family out, if they can make money to give them a good life...and secretly, they don't even care if the sex is all that good; because in the social media/hookup era, all that matters to people is "would this person look good as a prop on my Instagram page and make all my friends/followers jealous I get to go home to that?"

It is less a man/woman thing in society, or even a hookup culture thing, and more a "social media has made everyone so self-centered they've crossed over to becoming openly evil", and all of society now is reaping the results of this.

[–]QueenBread 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

You are projecting what men have always thought (flings are cool) onto women. The only women who want flings are prostitutes who need money. While men always were into flings. This is why dating apps end up filled of 90% men and 10% prostitutes: the normal women leave when the men make the app only about flings.

[–]LyingSpirit472 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Ah yes, because the fact dating apps went from coming into existence to "you have to do all of your dating search through dating apps and ONLY dating apps. Literally anything else: Talking to that person you see at the bookstore or grocery store, asking a friend to set you up, talking to that person you meet at a party- all of them are the same as raping them" in about six months is all because of men. All those poor women were tricked into these flings and literally no woman in the world who isn't a prostitute has ever used them. You're basically saying women have no agency, which makes you the real misogynist to claim that.

If there's one thing the last decade has proven, it's that women are fine with flings too as long as they know it's a fling.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

It's funny how you completely ignored my comment and went on some insane stream-of-consciousness personal rant that has nothing to do with what I wrote.

By ignoring my explanation of why only women who are there for money are still using dating apps (women don't want flings, so when dating apps became about flings, they left) you can keep projecting a man's way of thinking into a woman, once more. I wonder why is it that women understand how men think but many men have absolutely zero idea how women think.

[–]LyingSpirit472 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Well it's equal, since clearly you have zero idea how women who are not exactly like you in every single way, shape, and form think and cannot possibly fathom that the reason these apps succeed is because women are like that.

To put it simply: To say that dating apps are only used by prostitutes now, while ignoring how they've overtaken every form of dating, is to say literally every woman on earth but you is a whore. And if that's the case, you're the misogynist here.

[–]QueenBread 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Oh, boy. "Overtaken every form of dating". "Every woman on earth". Ooooh boy.... Tell me you spend your entire life alone in front of a computer screen, without telling me you spend your entire life alone in front of a computer screen.

Perhaps if you touched grass and spent some time in the real world, you'll find 98-99% of couples met in normal ways, not dating apps. Heck, I'm not American, perhaps in America those things are used more since that country is so backwards.... but I'd still wager it wouldn't make more than 5% of couples.

By the way, so.... why is it that the fact women aren't into flings anger you so much? Mmmh?

[–]LyingSpirit472 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Depends. Who the hell died and made you queen of all women everywhere in the whole world to say that you're 100% right and any woman who disagrees with you [of which there are many] are all whores because you're sooooooo fucking special and not like other girls, and indeed, meaning the phrase "no u" applies to your claim you spend your entire life alone in front of a computer screen.

Again, in America they are not only used more, but again, the rules of dating in America is if you don't meet from dating apps and try to meet in "normal ways", it's literally being a creep and raping the other person. I know you live in a world where every woman thinks exactly like you, but it's a lot different than you think.

[–]NormalPear 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Ah, gotta love when the furry bitches about troons being "sexist" then turns around and acts the same towards women who don't live the acceptable lifestyle.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I never said anything of the sort. I love this, ahah! Here, let me quote myself in case you turn out being capable of basic reading comprehension:

"You are projecting what men have always thought (flings are cool) onto women. The only women who want flings are prostitutes who need money. While men always were into flings. This is why dating apps end up filled of 90% men and 10% prostitutes: the normal women leave when the men make the app only about flings."

And here's another incel male projecting his disgusting nature onto women.

Oh wait, you said women love flings? Then surely dating apps are full of women (no they aren't) who love flings (no they don't, they need money). XD Dipshit.

[–]NormalPear 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You're done bitching yet? Stick a tampon in it, and come back when you're not being emotional.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why are you, a man, here babbling bullshit? Aren't men supposed to be productive? Go die in a war or something.

[–]NormalPear 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Get back in the kitchen, or something.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

This is true.

If not prove me wrong and go fuck a guy

[–]Adventurous_Ad6212 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Challenge accepted point me to a man who wants to fuck my ogre looking ass

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aww, I bet you're not ugly!

[–]Clown_Chan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's true, though.

I very rarely find a random men attractive, unless it's a celebrity.

[–]Adventurous_Ad6212 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A…are sexual prefernces a thing we collectively forgot?

[–]alladd 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This feels off.

Look at every other post on OP's account, it's all about her relationships: "Oh, I had a 4 year BPD boyfriend" "Oh I had feelings for a friend's ex" "Oh I got on Tinder and fucked someone on the first date" "BPD boyfriend 2 electric boogaloo"

But she's not attracted to men? Even normal people don't post this much about dating on Reddit. This girl has issues.

Seems like maybe she was trying to make something come true with that Reddit post. Trying to wean off her love addiction.