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[–]Haylstorm 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

It's insanity. I've seen how some of them react to Bi partners not caring too and it's wild. Like they really spit the dummy out the pram and feel like they aren't validated by the other person being bi. They ONLY want a gay man and anything that isn't that is transphobic.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I love how the LGBT movement claims to be against biphobia, but doesn’t give two shits when a tranny refuses to date bisexuals. Not that there is anything wrong with not wanting to date a bisexual or only wanting to date bisexuals. But the LGBT movement will call you biphobic for this… unless you are trans.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

There does appear to be a pattern of AGP men seeking out bisexual women to marry so that when they reveal that they are really a lady, they can attempt to use their wife's bisexuality as a way to pressure her to accept their new identity and stay married. The ones who trans when they are single, want a real lesbian to validate them but the ones who have an AGP fetish but also want to hold on to the best chance of getting and staying married glom on to bisexual women if they can.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

And of course, their bisexual partners leave them anyway. Because radically changing your appearance is a massive turnoff. Not to mention having to remember the chance of name, pronouns and how this can affect the children. I'm not bisexual, but even if I was, I would still leave my partner if my partner tried to be trans.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I used to have a massive crush on a friend who started identifying as NB and my attraction literally died the day after I realised. Even without any radical change in appearance or name change, I just find someone having that kind of disconnect with their body a turn off. Sex and sexual attraction is an instinctual, physical, animal thing to me. If you can't connect to the body that you have how can you use it to connect with someone else?

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't blame you. A non-binary fella asked me out on Grindr and I said no. I wasn't interested.