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[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

The problem with trans men is that they have been told by the established government, media and institutions that they are owed whatever they want. Trans men who are straight or bi want to have boyfriends. They target gay men because they want us to validate their delusions. Keep in mind that gay men have been criminalised and coerced by society into marrying women for centuries, through sodomy laws, bachelors’ taxes and harassment from families and communities. Now that we are finally allowed to date other men and be left alone by society, you have mentally ill women barging into our spaces and demanding we put them on a pedestal. Now, this isn’t something that is entirely new to us - we’ve had to deal with hen parties being held in gay bars for years. And also women sexually harassing gay men in gay bars with impunity. But trans men want us to pretend that they are men, and have us isolated from spaces that were made for us if we do not comply with their demands. You also have lesbian trans men who sexually harass lesbians and expect lesbians to call themselves straight while dating them. WTF?

[–]Haylstorm 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

It's insanity. I've seen how some of them react to Bi partners not caring too and it's wild. Like they really spit the dummy out the pram and feel like they aren't validated by the other person being bi. They ONLY want a gay man and anything that isn't that is transphobic.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

I love how the LGBT movement claims to be against biphobia, but doesn’t give two shits when a tranny refuses to date bisexuals. Not that there is anything wrong with not wanting to date a bisexual or only wanting to date bisexuals. But the LGBT movement will call you biphobic for this… unless you are trans.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

There does appear to be a pattern of AGP men seeking out bisexual women to marry so that when they reveal that they are really a lady, they can attempt to use their wife's bisexuality as a way to pressure her to accept their new identity and stay married. The ones who trans when they are single, want a real lesbian to validate them but the ones who have an AGP fetish but also want to hold on to the best chance of getting and staying married glom on to bisexual women if they can.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

And of course, their bisexual partners leave them anyway. Because radically changing your appearance is a massive turnoff. Not to mention having to remember the chance of name, pronouns and how this can affect the children. I'm not bisexual, but even if I was, I would still leave my partner if my partner tried to be trans.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I used to have a massive crush on a friend who started identifying as NB and my attraction literally died the day after I realised. Even without any radical change in appearance or name change, I just find someone having that kind of disconnect with their body a turn off. Sex and sexual attraction is an instinctual, physical, animal thing to me. If you can't connect to the body that you have how can you use it to connect with someone else?

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't blame you. A non-binary fella asked me out on Grindr and I said no. I wasn't interested.

[–]LordoftheFliesAmeri-kin 2.0. Pronouns: MegaWhite/SuperStraight/UltraPatriarchy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The old TiA, before it went almost entirely into coverering troonery, used to feature a variety of wackiness from the LBG side, including quite a number of posts where bi people got shit on for being bi. If they dated straight? They were just queer posing for status. If they dated gay? Then obviously they could just stop having straight partners at all, but chose not to. And if they added trans to the mix? Oh lawdy, the salt and outrage that followed.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, the treatment of bisexuals suck. Yes, a lot of bisexual people are clueless on what it is like to be gay, and think that same sex relationships are not serious at all, which does rub gay people the wrong way. But most biaexuals know that same sex relationships can be serious, and many of them have had their hearts broken by members of the same sex. Furthermore, to dismiss bisexuality as a stepping stone to coming out as gay or a call for attention is ignorant at best and insensitive at worst. I also find it odd that transsexuals expect bisexuals to find them attractive while refusing to date bi people because they want homosexuals or heretosexuals to validate them. The treatment bisexuals get from society is not fair.