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[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

And of course, their bisexual partners leave them anyway. Because radically changing your appearance is a massive turnoff. Not to mention having to remember the chance of name, pronouns and how this can affect the children. I'm not bisexual, but even if I was, I would still leave my partner if my partner tried to be trans.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I used to have a massive crush on a friend who started identifying as NB and my attraction literally died the day after I realised. Even without any radical change in appearance or name change, I just find someone having that kind of disconnect with their body a turn off. Sex and sexual attraction is an instinctual, physical, animal thing to me. If you can't connect to the body that you have how can you use it to connect with someone else?

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't blame you. A non-binary fella asked me out on Grindr and I said no. I wasn't interested.