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[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

No one I talk to seems to think it's normal. I have also never met a single asexual irl. And the only ones I see online are all trans.

[–]Musky༼⁠ ⁠つ⁠ ⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠ ⁠༽⁠つ 🐈 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The younger people today seem nearly sexless to me even if they aren't truly asexual. My theory is this is just more normal seeming to you since you don't have a frame of reference for how it used to be, but getting laid used to be an important goal of young men everywhere.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201811/7-reasons-why-young-people-are-having-less-sex

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/young-adults-especially-men-having-sex-less-frequently

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It isn't an important goal anymore? Everyone I know is obsessed with it, and people who don't succeed are super bitter and become incels.