Well, it may not totally be just that, but that she's finding out gay men aren't the same as the "two hunky guys who like to fuck each other" BL/yaoi series that's the same thing as male-focused all-girl porn, and she's finding out that "finding two hot, handsome, Chad-esque dudes who are banging each other to fluff themselves before double-teaming a fujoshi" is exactly as unrealistic for a woman to expect as a man to expect the equivalent to happen.