My interpretation is that they are trying to brainwash someone with doubts that stem from common sense who say "but I don't feel like a woman", they're actually trying to trans the kids who don't even feel like they're a woman by planting seeds of doubts in their gullible minds.

The second part is basically telling them to take baby steps. Like a cocaine dealer offering some weed at first. Since they can't force it on them they're trying to set them up with a small step.