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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

strangers on the internet

It's a small site, some of us know each other pretty well here. It led to a brief but rather hot convo with u/Vulptex, he's a dude, but nobody's perfect.

how I paid waaay too much attention to their anatomy or positions.

They're memories from 23 years ago, when I was a young guy and in a time before porn was easily accessible online. A glance of panties in high school was a big deal. The other girl is notable because not only are there few female programmers, let alone in the top echelon of a difficult class like machine language, they certainly don't look like models. Brains and beauty in a male dominated profession, the girl was a unicorn. Never ran across any others, not that I know of anyways.

Anyways, I didn't mean to offend you. Apologies if I did.

[–]QueenBread 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Go on, you can get even more sexist if you tried. Why would it be strange for a woman to be hot AND smart? And even worse: why would a woman have a harder time studying a difficult class - do you think we're dumber? "Aaaww look at that woman, she managed to accomplish that, almost like a man!"

Yeah, I know I'm humoring a semi-incel here and the smartest thing to do would actually be to back off from this conversation.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Why would it be strange for a woman to be hot AND smart?

Because most of the smart ones don't spend 25 hours per day getting dressed.

"Aaaww look at that woman, she managed to accomplish that, almost like a man!"

That's because women aren't usually coerced into provider roles and threatened if they fail. So if she does something it's likely entirely by her own will.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because most of the smart ones don't spend 25 hours per day getting dressed.

So, natural beauty is not a thing?

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But there's always natural beauty plus cultivation.