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[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It is after the fact, but it requires giving up some autonomy.

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

All my self improvement I've done on my own under my own initiative.

Mostly the people around you want to to stay the same forever because that's easier for them to deal with.