That's a rabbit hole you don't wanna go down mate. Have seen parents and kids transition together before. Dad's kid comes out as a woman and lo and behold Dad comes out at the same time. What a coincidence.

The issues here aren't that the people are unaware of the dirty details, they deny they exist entirely. They like to pretend that anything that makes them feel disphoric doesn't exist. It's insanity pure and simple. I can pity the insanity, but I can't pity the doctors going along with it, or the society that considers these people fit to maintain custody.

The real villians in this aren't the trans people, the insufferable woke types that are self flagellating themselves about how progressive they are, it's the doctors and the therapists that are encouraging it and getting rich off of the misery of others.