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[–]Gigababejfl 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (14 children)

All you need to do in this life is think things through. Just think through. We are not fucking men. We don't trick ourselves into thinking being used for sex by men who find us too ugly for respect =self actualization. Some femcels are literally medically deformed and many of us refuse to engage in sexual activity with people outside of a real relationship. Why? Because men are categorically monstrous to unattractive women as well as women they do not like. We don't claim to be incels. Fuck incels. We are our own group with our own needs.

The reason our community was so special and strong is because on an average day, people like u say things like this. Its meant to invalidate when as a fact, most people who walk by and do this shit also feel crippled by the smallest slights in normie world. Women are not men. All any man who cares about life past his nose has to do is take is male pov goggles off and look around

If women were that into the indiscriminate and extremely low quality of casual sex from random men, the stats wouldn't show these dating apps and sites as a virtual sausage fest.

Thank you for your comment about our community. Reddit is literally traumatizing for lots of women, including me, with its spectacular tolerance for misogyny. Femcels are amongst the most ostracized for literally nothing and all it took was for some weird guy and his internet-cop sub to point the finger and make accusations. He would present prove for other claims, no proof with us. The same BardFinn bragging ability archiving data of 40,000+ redditors he doesn't like.

[–]JasonCarswell 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Fantastic comment. Get's to the core, clearly.

Sadly our culture programs us to value women as sex objects and men as success objects.

I admit that I am not seeking any relationships now because not only would it be unfair to her, but also myself. I don't want to keep wishing she was better, or her that I was. I will never consider myself an incel. I'm a volcel at best and would never take that on as an identity. Things are changing for me so there's hope yet, but not much as I'm already 50.

This is the reality and often ugly world we live in.

[–]C3P0 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

That's respectable. I think the alternative of polyamory is disgusting, so good for you.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

What's the alternative of polyamory? I knew many folks in Burning Man communities from several cities who were polyamorous. Seemed too complicated, too much trouble, and too much drama. Were I stable and able I might have liked it. I did host many orgies, which is another ball of fun. That was when I was young, sexy, and single.

[–]C3P0 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

One alternative is polyamory, the other alternative is to break up.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Lets not ping u/bardfinn here

[–]cisheteroscum 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Oh God that faggot is already on this site

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

:)

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

BTW do you know where u/niceice are? He is a very old user

[–]cisheteroscum 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

No but coincidentally I was just wondering the same thing the other day. He's banned on plebbit, maybe came back as a different user

Edit: Should clarify he is technically on our mod team but hasn't posted in 5 months and haven't heard anything about it otherwise

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sad, he was a good guy. He moded my most favourite subs r/againstsinglemothers and r/againstwomenrights

[–]C3P0 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your English is a bit confusing, but I get your point. Thank you for letting me state my point.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

He has a point, men will fuck almost anything and it's hard to imagine women so repulsive that even the most desperate of guys will make a hard pass. I accept you exist but do understand, it is hard to imagine.

[–]Gigababejfl 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You don't have to imagine. You're a man. What do you care about our humanity? I wrote him an entire reply and all you did was repeat what he said completely ignoring what I said.

This is why I really don't care when the manosphere weeps over "the woes of men". We are the community we are because as you have proven here, men will never listen.
All we have is ourselves.

Please take your obsession with sex back over to your side. We don't care here. Imagine women being the asshole gender repeatedly hounding you about your "privilege " to give all your hard earned money away for nothing. You'd understand how that's bad but yet you people do this to us about out own bodies.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You don't have to imagine. You're a man

I'm 40, and I've been with my wife for 21 years. So yes, I have to think what I'd pass on if I was really drunk in my early 20s.