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[–]magnora7 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

If you only say 1 it makes you look like a shill. Offering 2 options makes you look friendly and helpful, which is useful to get people to click the links. I'm surprised you don't see the value of this

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    [–]magnora7 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

    It's just diplomacy. Also I genuinely care about giving people alternatives, so it's not just for shilling reasons

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      [–]magnora7 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

      It's not a matter of outgoing and vitality, it's just a matter of communicating my intent clearly

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        [–]magnora7 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

        Haha thanks, I appreciate the compliment. I just eventually realized there are things more important than my emotions, like spreading the truth, and making the truth accessible to others. If I am speaking with kindness and good intent and wisdom as best I can, then I refuse to feel ashamed just because of how some specific person reacts to it in one moment. Maybe they simply had a bad day, who knows? I shouldn't let other people's emotional negativity drag me down when there are so many other better ways to think and feel. And furthermore, those ways of thinking and feeling are often more accurate to the truth than the opinions of people who negatively emotionally lash out. So it's just a healthy way to live, imo

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          [–]magnora7 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

          I think the different between us is most people will finally understand you if you work hard enough... But I am not...

          I felt this way for a long time. But someday you will find something you are good at that ALSO people appreciate you for. But it might take a while. It took me many, many years. You have to make your own unique path through life, there is no other way.

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              [–]magnora7 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

              ugh stop comparing me to the things I hate, when I'm just trying to offer people alternatives to reddit. If I owned notabug you maybe would have a point. Or if I owned reddit. But I don't. Not sure if you're joking or not, but it's not very diplomatic lol

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                [–]magnora7 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                oh okay lol