I think part it is that bitching about how awful women are because they know no women want them anyways, is much, much easier than actually putting any effort in to meet someone, and safer because they don't risk being rejected.

One of the first parties I ever went to, all the guys were in one place and the women in another. I just went were the women were and talked to them all night while the guys had their sausage fest. I didn't get laid, didn't even cross my mind I had a shot, but it was a fun night.

I understood so little back then but instincts -- or whatever you want to call it -- kicked in. It isn't something I have to try to do. I don't understand why incels don't have that. Or why don't they ever meet anyone they just have chemistry with and things just happen.