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[–]asterias 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Gross, he's 33 and he wants to date a 22 year old.

What is so terrible about that?

In any case, women working as waitresses are known to flirt left and right and encouraging clients to ask them out so that they can enjoy the attention and the drama.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

What is so terrible about that?

The dating rule is half your age plus 7, so the minimum acceptable age would be nearly 24 for a 33 year old. When you date someone older, there's a power imbalance. The older partner is generally going to have the upper hand. It's also hard to connect with someone that young on an personal level because of different interests and life experience. And you aren't going to want hang out with her and her friends, or talk about Kanye West for hours. Your shit is probably going to bore her. Both of you miss out on having a more equal partner.

I mean, the upside is obviously the 22 year old is probably a hot, tight, piece of ass, but that doesn't make people think well of it.

In any case, women working as waitresses are known to flirt left and right and encouraging clients to ask them out so that they can enjoy the attention and the drama.

Being friendly is a requirement of the job. Some guys misinterpret that as a romantic interest. It almost never is.

It also isn't totally men. I got hit on constantly at work. MANY of them are not women you'd want to bag. Imagine an unattractive woman with a bad personality who won't leave you alone, won't take no for an answer, is handsy, tries to fuck you everytime you're drinking outside of work.... It's not awesome. And you're just trying to do your job while they're doing this. Or some are way too old, like the guy in this scenario.

Now the flip side is what these women are experiencing.

I actually met my wife at work, though, rang her up. Didn't hit on her as a customer though, but I guess I made an impression on her. I can recall her in retrospect, but we were getting 100s of customers an hour, total sea of faces. I was nice to everyone. Sometimes I get bored and chat with them, try to make them laugh. It's more to pass the time. People seem to think I'm flirt a lot, but I just a social, friendly person mostly.

[–]asterias 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

When you date someone older, there's a power imbalance.

Let's consider the average 30 year old man and the average 30 year old woman. The man might have had the experience of one or two often unsatisfying relationships and sex with a few escorts. The woman has been hopping from cock to cock, enjoying the attention of men while playing it hard to get and having reckless sex at bar toilets and choosing which man will offer her the most in terms of money and luxury and attention. Then at 30 she will have even stricter requirements, as she feels she had had her fun and now it's time to settle down and why those single men want to have sex instead of settling down with a used up slut, not to mention that their income and height is not as she desires?

Should this power imbalance be acceptable for men?

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

It is mathematically impossible for either men or women to have more sex when we are talking about heterosexuals. Every time a woman has sex she is having sex with a man, so a man is also having sex.

[–]asterias 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

It's mathematically perfectly possible.

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Consider this:

10 males, 10 females

Let's say each female has sex with 2 males. That means each male has had sex with 2 females. Their average is the same: 2.

Let's say all the females have sex with one male, while the rest of the males don't have sex.

Female sex: 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1, 1:1

Female average = 1 * 10 = 10, 10 / 10 = 1

Male sex = 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:0, 1:10

Male average = 10 * 1 = 10, 10 / 10 = 1

You will find that no matter what numbers you put in, the averages are also the same. Because every time a man has sex (with a woman), a woman also has sex (with a man), so they each get a point.

[–]rmprtom 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

@socks I woke up to see Ed's post and couldn't stop laughing 

@socks some investors here - like Mittens & Ed - could lose a lot of money with their many investments 

@usehername Ed is insane because he lets his bot trade for him and he loses $ 

@weegspeegs Or perhaps ed is the intelligent fellow formerly known as go1dfish and got havana'd 

@socks The few people making big $$$$ were themselves rich beforehand and could  get in with more capitol - like Elon Musk 

@socks The few people making big $$$$ were themselves rich beforehand and could  get in with more capitol - like Elon Musk 

@usehername I mean he comes here and trolls weegs. For years. Since the beginning of this site

@socks The first principle of using calculations to advise in trading is flexibility - and yet Ed claims he's got THE constant formula - which is not how trading works

@weegspeegs When I had my coins it was an everyday occurrence to lose or gain $10k without lifting a finger. On paper of course

@socks Ed's not smarter than the rest of the world - but he seems not to know this 

@usehername Eddy is a super genius 

@weegspeegs dude

@usehername He's a mastermind 

@socks I mean - I admire hard work and persistence - but this must also be combined with humility and flexibility

@usehername Eddy is going to become a billionaire and then the saidit chat users will suck his clown penis and thank him

@socks a master debater 

 @AXXA i didn't see any indication of what it was actually about

@usehername Idk eddy is always mad

@usehername I wasnt there

@weegspeegs beingPoisoned reset chat in the middle of the night

@AXXA oh no how horrible

@usehername Yeah eddy was being a cunt all night

@usehername He deserved it

@usehername He can't get his dick sucked irl so this is what he does 

[–]secretmessage 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if a woodpecker pecked a pecker and couldnt peck no wood, why did the woodpecker peck a a pecker?

[–]secretmessage 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

fag = usehername

if as a male you seek out advice about how to date women from a dude that sucks dick, you might as well be taking skydiving lessons from a penguin.