Not everything in the military is combat. Women can do other things as well as or better than men yet we still don't put them there, the real reason is that we aren't nearly as willing to risk their lives as we are mens'. Also women usually won't take other responsibilities that they're perfectly capable of either, like paying the bills. Not because they're women, but because all humans will avoid what they don't have to do. Meaning the issue is that men are expected to do a whole lot more than women are.

Calling out injustices men have is not "blaming women" for them.