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[–]paleolithicat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

I have quite a few Scorpio female friends and get along with Scorpios very well generally. But wouldn't date one, to be honest. :D I mean, I have seen it from my friends how intensive they can be with people they like/date and I find it too much to handle. Even though I myself have a Mars in Scorpio so intensity doesn't per se scare me, I even crave it in a certain sense. But it just looks really tiring when it comes to you guys. No harsh feelings!

PS. Dated a Cancer with a lot of Plutonian energy, I love her but she was a maniac. Sooo should not be my cup of tea as I experience it as toxic. I have an airy Jupiterian chart so I think I am just too much on the bright side for the gloom and darkness of the underworld, so to speak.

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    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

    We all have a birth chart. You need to have the date, time you were born, and the location of where you were born so you know exactly where your planets fall in there and what your rising sign is.

    When we’re born the sun, moon, Mercury, venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto are all in different signs and places when we’re born.

    So as an example I have a Cancer rising which is the impression I would give off to a person who doesn’t know me.

    I have my sun in Scorpio in the 4th house. This who I am at my core and how and where I shine brightest in the world.

    I have my moon in the 6th house in Capricorn which is how I feel, and emotionally express myself.

    I have Mercury in the 4th house in Scorpio. This is how and the way I communicate.

    I have Venus in the 4th house in Libra this is how and what I express with love, want, need, desire, hate, and discord because there are two sides of venus

    I have Mars in Gemini in the 11th house. This is how I go about getting what I want and need.

    Then I have Jupiter in Leo in the 1st house. This defines my logical reasoning for doing things, my beliefs, luck, life philosophies.

    I have Saturn in the 7th house in Capricorn which is where I could be restricted until I learn how to be a grown as well as where I can find the most stability and longevity in life.

    I have Neptune and Uranus in the 6th house of Capricorn. Neptune which is what hides and reveals all of my wishes, desires, dreams and visions I have for my life and how and where I welcome release from stress and challenging situations. Uranus describes how and where the element of surprise and shock falls in my life, how I experience sudden inspiration.

    I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th house. This is where and how my personal growth comes to play.

    So I mentioned the houses my planets fall in and the signs, but that’s my personal chart. Depending on the type of astrologer you deal with if it’s for a psychological based astrologer they’re going to read the chart and the aspects those planets make to each other and understand how you function as a person. It’s essentially being able to read a understand the psychology of a person to help cope with life, get through problems, and to be the best version of themselves that they’re capable of depending on their life situations and circumstances. I’ve used this as a form of talk therapy and I found it much more fulfilling and helpful than when I had a therapist with a medical degree.

    So I mentioned the houses 1st is house of self, how we come off to others when they first meet us.

    2nd house describes what we value, our money, and our possessions.

    3rd houses describes communication, siblings, short journeys, writing.

    4th houses describes home and family

    5th house is love, children, and fun

    6th is work and health, our day to day.

    7th is relationships of all kind and can describe the marriage partner

    8th house is what you get after marriage, the deeper side of relationships, intimacy, sex.

    9th house is philosophy, higher education, luck and joy

    10th house is the house of career

    11th house is the house of friendship, hopes and dreams and wishes.

    12th house is how we relax, our hidden strengths and weaknesses.

    Sorry if this is way more information than you were wanting btw. Anyway you can use free software to generate a chart. There’s Astro.com and Astro-seek.com I think Astro-seek.com is better for people who are newer to astrology, but either one is good.

    But a birth chart is essentially what makes everyone individual and different from everyone. Like yes generally a Scorpio is going to be intense, but that’s a generalized description. There are Scorpios like me who have a lot more earth going on and Saturnian vibe like I do or you could get one who’s got mostly fire or water or air and a different emphasis on houses. Like mostly everything for me is below the horizon which could also describe me as a more introverted person who finds comfort in being at home or small intimate gatherings or one on one, whereas another person who has their planets above the horizon or on the top of the chart has is typically going to be a more extroverted and out and about in the world type of personality.

    It gets really in-depth and from what I’ve seen is there’s always something new and takes you even deeper if it’s something you get interested in.

    [–]whateverbeaver 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    When someone knows about astro.com you know they know what's up ;)

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Lol I have software that I use personally to do research and sometimes for readings if someone asks or in the past for volunteer work. Astro.com was what I started on though.

    [–]whateverbeaver 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I may ask you for a reading sometime ;)

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      [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

      Cool! If you need any more help or have any more questions feel free to ask. If you’d like a book to help you understand more “The Essential Guide To Practical Astrology” by April Elliott Kent is a great resource for Kindle. The author also has a weekly podcast she does with her lesbian friend called “Big Sky Astrology” but that has to do with the current transits which I didn’t describe to you...So transits are where the planets are right now and they hit everyone’s charts differently.

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        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        Yeah exactly! It’s a general kind of thing. They also talk about the Sabian symbols every degree of every sign has one it’s 1-30 instead of the astrological 0-29. I love that podcast another really good one that is similar is called “The Golden Astrologer” I like that one the best, but both are really good and super informative.

        If you have a smart phone and a amazon account you can just download the kindle app for free and buy it on Amazon for kindle and it automatically downloads to the app.

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          [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          Don’t be sorry, feel free to ask any questions. I’m here to help as best as I can. And hope you enjoy the podcasts and the book...and the app!

          [–]whateverbeaver 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

          I'm a Scorpio but have a saggy ascendant, maybe we could get along ;)

          I am intense about love, definitely. But I like to think I'm more of a healed Scorpio. I don't want to possess now, I want now to merge instead.

          [–]paleolithicat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

          Hahaha, we are sure to get along - I haven't had fights with Scorpios (thank God :D). It definitely depends on different factors. I have noticed that October Scorpios for example are less intense and more cheerful.

          To be honest, I have also not met any lesbian Scorpios. You are surely lurking somewhere in dark places where I don't go lol.

          [–]whateverbeaver 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

          Hehe. Indeed, we are usually on lchat 😏 😂

          [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

          Lol because we’re all at home 😂😂😂

          [–]whateverbeaver 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

          This too omg. They say cancer is the homebody but nah, scorpio is the real one

          [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          Really tho. Every Cancer I’ve met in my life was a social butterfly.

          [–]whateverbeaver 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          But I'm also a libra moon and mercury so I can communicate very well about it as we go deeper ;D