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[–]homosomes 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I don't pay attention to horoscopes or birth charts or stuff like that at all so I wouldn't know.

[–]Lessom 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Same. I feel like so many lesbians are into horoscopes and make decisions based on that which I find weird. If I like a woman then I like her regardless whether she is half Scorpio and half moon or however It works.

[–]homosomes 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Cranky? Look's like somebody's moon is in retro gatorade tonight. /s

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 14 fun3 insightful - 13 fun4 insightful - 14 fun -  (5 children)

I'm AVAB but I identify as a Scorpio.

[–]Shales123 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Lmaooo then I'm ACAB

[–]whateverbeaver 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

This made my day, thank you for making me laugh so hard I spit out my coffee ;D

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

What is AVAB?

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 10 fun3 insightful - 9 fun4 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

Assigned virgo at birth

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Lol very clever

[–]whateverbeaver 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

My experience with myself has been lovely ;)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Am also a Scorpio. I’m just curious about how people really feel.

[–]whateverbeaver 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I can relate. They seem to be all across the board when it comes to us.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know right? You know the controlling generalization? For me I don’t feel like I’m controlling and I’ve never really felt like the Scorpio sun people I’ve known in life are controlling. Taurus are controlling as fuck. My ex girlfriend who was a Taurus she had me share my location with her every single day and if I didn’t answer a text while I was at the beach and couldn’t see my phone screen she’d call me and ask me where I was and what I was doing. The girl before her also Taurus she would get enraged if things did not go exactly as she planned it or wanted it. There was no flexibility. Scorpio actually do change that’s the whole idea behind the sign and mythology associated with it.

[–]whateverbeaver 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more!

[–]devonSwan 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I dated a scorpio for 6 months we went to Octoberfest on a double date and I thought everything was going good. that was the last time I saw her. I don't usually believe in that stuff but.....

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I’ve had my fair share of times when I’ve broken it off with someone as well as being broken up with. It’s never fun for either side, but I hope for both of y’all that she gave you a reason and was nice about it and there were no hard feelings.

And better 6 months than 6 years I’ve seen that happen to couples often of various sign types where they should have broken up within 2-6 months of getting together and they prolong it out of either complacency, loyalty, selfishness, money, fear of failure. Couples I knew who got together between the ages of 18-21 usually almost always ended up breaking up by 27 and then most of them ended up doing all the partying I was doing at 18-24 because they hadn’t gotten to have those experiences and tbh from my experience I think it’s much better to get all of that out of your system as young as possible because at 30 looking at people my age who are doing what I was doing at 19-24 is really unattractive.

[–]censorshipment 2 insightful - 6 fun2 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 6 fun -  (6 children)

Can't stand them.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

How come? I was hoping for some negativity so what’re the reasons? My friend is a Sagittarius and she overall feels the same way. Her child was due to be a Scorpio and she went back to the doctor and had her c-section scheduled so it would be born a Libra. She hates how brooding we are.

[–]censorshipment 3 insightful - 7 fun3 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 7 fun -  (4 children)

Scorpios are generally mean (not "mean girls"/bullies). Too strict/stubborn/decisive. Fixed signs in general are unlikeable. They're likely to cut ties with you (relatives, friends, partners) which I think is cruel. I talked to a Scorpio last year who was awful to her ex-girlfriend and would advise me to be awful to my ex-girlfriend. Her ex contacted her to say happy birthday, and she blocked her ex. SMH

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve cut ties with old friends and exes and I’ve blocked several people. It definitely comes off as mean and cruel to some people I’m sure, but there’s always a good and much deeper reason as to why I would do something like that and I’m sure that ex had her own good reasons as to why she did what she did. As for her telling you to be awful to your ex that’s just immaturity, and she also probably felt or perceived that there was some kind of competition whether or not that’s true or not I’d be most likely to bet that’s what she felt and why she did that.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Awww. What are you? Like I want to say a Capricorn because of how concise and blunt your answers are.

[–]censorshipment 2 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Gemini sun, Sag moon & rising.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay! That also makes sense.

[–]Destresse 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I tend to get along well with scorpios, although the ones I know tend to be too nosy about intimate stuff sometimes and it makes me go "haha, no chance"

My Sun is in Cancer, moon, venus, and rising in Virgo if I'm not mistaken. VERY reserved hahaha, so that does not mesh well. Other than that, I find scorpios easy to talk to, usually relatable, no major compatibility issue for my part.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah and if you’ve got a Virgo rising and a Cancer sun that would put your sun in the 10th or 11th house so that combined with the Virgo energy really would be reserved until they let the other person in or feel comfortable. 10th house is naturally ruled by Capricorn who are naturally very reserved and the 11th is naturally ruled by Aquarius who aren’t necessarily reserved, but detached in nature.

Scorpio rules the 8th house naturally which is the house of intimacy, emotional and physical. Scorpio at their core don’t just want depth in knowing another person they actually need it and it can make others who aren’t familiar with that kind of thing to feel uncomfortable.

[–]Destresse 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yep, in 10th house. Lol, I didn't know it could get worse than that 😂

I actually totally understand that part of scorpios and I find their insight really interesting as a result.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve known a few 10th house suns, never thought it was bad it just typically gives the person a propensity towards being really ambitious and or really career oriented.

[–]paleolithicat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

I have quite a few Scorpio female friends and get along with Scorpios very well generally. But wouldn't date one, to be honest. :D I mean, I have seen it from my friends how intensive they can be with people they like/date and I find it too much to handle. Even though I myself have a Mars in Scorpio so intensity doesn't per se scare me, I even crave it in a certain sense. But it just looks really tiring when it comes to you guys. No harsh feelings!

PS. Dated a Cancer with a lot of Plutonian energy, I love her but she was a maniac. Sooo should not be my cup of tea as I experience it as toxic. I have an airy Jupiterian chart so I think I am just too much on the bright side for the gloom and darkness of the underworld, so to speak.

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    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

    We all have a birth chart. You need to have the date, time you were born, and the location of where you were born so you know exactly where your planets fall in there and what your rising sign is.

    When we’re born the sun, moon, Mercury, venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto are all in different signs and places when we’re born.

    So as an example I have a Cancer rising which is the impression I would give off to a person who doesn’t know me.

    I have my sun in Scorpio in the 4th house. This who I am at my core and how and where I shine brightest in the world.

    I have my moon in the 6th house in Capricorn which is how I feel, and emotionally express myself.

    I have Mercury in the 4th house in Scorpio. This is how and the way I communicate.

    I have Venus in the 4th house in Libra this is how and what I express with love, want, need, desire, hate, and discord because there are two sides of venus

    I have Mars in Gemini in the 11th house. This is how I go about getting what I want and need.

    Then I have Jupiter in Leo in the 1st house. This defines my logical reasoning for doing things, my beliefs, luck, life philosophies.

    I have Saturn in the 7th house in Capricorn which is where I could be restricted until I learn how to be a grown as well as where I can find the most stability and longevity in life.

    I have Neptune and Uranus in the 6th house of Capricorn. Neptune which is what hides and reveals all of my wishes, desires, dreams and visions I have for my life and how and where I welcome release from stress and challenging situations. Uranus describes how and where the element of surprise and shock falls in my life, how I experience sudden inspiration.

    I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th house. This is where and how my personal growth comes to play.

    So I mentioned the houses my planets fall in and the signs, but that’s my personal chart. Depending on the type of astrologer you deal with if it’s for a psychological based astrologer they’re going to read the chart and the aspects those planets make to each other and understand how you function as a person. It’s essentially being able to read a understand the psychology of a person to help cope with life, get through problems, and to be the best version of themselves that they’re capable of depending on their life situations and circumstances. I’ve used this as a form of talk therapy and I found it much more fulfilling and helpful than when I had a therapist with a medical degree.

    So I mentioned the houses 1st is house of self, how we come off to others when they first meet us.

    2nd house describes what we value, our money, and our possessions.

    3rd houses describes communication, siblings, short journeys, writing.

    4th houses describes home and family

    5th house is love, children, and fun

    6th is work and health, our day to day.

    7th is relationships of all kind and can describe the marriage partner

    8th house is what you get after marriage, the deeper side of relationships, intimacy, sex.

    9th house is philosophy, higher education, luck and joy

    10th house is the house of career

    11th house is the house of friendship, hopes and dreams and wishes.

    12th house is how we relax, our hidden strengths and weaknesses.

    Sorry if this is way more information than you were wanting btw. Anyway you can use free software to generate a chart. There’s Astro.com and Astro-seek.com I think Astro-seek.com is better for people who are newer to astrology, but either one is good.

    But a birth chart is essentially what makes everyone individual and different from everyone. Like yes generally a Scorpio is going to be intense, but that’s a generalized description. There are Scorpios like me who have a lot more earth going on and Saturnian vibe like I do or you could get one who’s got mostly fire or water or air and a different emphasis on houses. Like mostly everything for me is below the horizon which could also describe me as a more introverted person who finds comfort in being at home or small intimate gatherings or one on one, whereas another person who has their planets above the horizon or on the top of the chart has is typically going to be a more extroverted and out and about in the world type of personality.

    It gets really in-depth and from what I’ve seen is there’s always something new and takes you even deeper if it’s something you get interested in.

    [–]whateverbeaver 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    When someone knows about astro.com you know they know what's up ;)

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Lol I have software that I use personally to do research and sometimes for readings if someone asks or in the past for volunteer work. Astro.com was what I started on though.

    [–]whateverbeaver 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I may ask you for a reading sometime ;)

    [–][deleted]  (5 children)

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      [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

      Cool! If you need any more help or have any more questions feel free to ask. If you’d like a book to help you understand more “The Essential Guide To Practical Astrology” by April Elliott Kent is a great resource for Kindle. The author also has a weekly podcast she does with her lesbian friend called “Big Sky Astrology” but that has to do with the current transits which I didn’t describe to you...So transits are where the planets are right now and they hit everyone’s charts differently.

      [–][deleted]  (3 children)

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        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        Yeah exactly! It’s a general kind of thing. They also talk about the Sabian symbols every degree of every sign has one it’s 1-30 instead of the astrological 0-29. I love that podcast another really good one that is similar is called “The Golden Astrologer” I like that one the best, but both are really good and super informative.

        If you have a smart phone and a amazon account you can just download the kindle app for free and buy it on Amazon for kindle and it automatically downloads to the app.

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          [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          Don’t be sorry, feel free to ask any questions. I’m here to help as best as I can. And hope you enjoy the podcasts and the book...and the app!

          [–]whateverbeaver 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

          I'm a Scorpio but have a saggy ascendant, maybe we could get along ;)

          I am intense about love, definitely. But I like to think I'm more of a healed Scorpio. I don't want to possess now, I want now to merge instead.

          [–]paleolithicat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

          Hahaha, we are sure to get along - I haven't had fights with Scorpios (thank God :D). It definitely depends on different factors. I have noticed that October Scorpios for example are less intense and more cheerful.

          To be honest, I have also not met any lesbian Scorpios. You are surely lurking somewhere in dark places where I don't go lol.

          [–]whateverbeaver 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

          Hehe. Indeed, we are usually on lchat 😏 😂

          [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

          Lol because we’re all at home 😂😂😂

          [–]whateverbeaver 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

          This too omg. They say cancer is the homebody but nah, scorpio is the real one

          [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          Really tho. Every Cancer I’ve met in my life was a social butterfly.

          [–]whateverbeaver 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          But I'm also a libra moon and mercury so I can communicate very well about it as we go deeper ;D