[spoilers] Below Her Mouth (2016) — Film of The Week

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[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (25 children)

I was thinking more about this. Sometimes pleasure can simply be the alleviation of pain. Maybe when women experience "pleasure" from anal, it's just caused by the contrast between discomfort and no discomfort. So, discomfort when penetrated and "pleasure" when it stops haha That would be interesting.

I mean yes nerve endings are being stimulated, but we're not just walking erogenous zones and not all stimulation will cause pleasure. I just can't see how or why a woman would experience actual physical pleasure from anal sex. I'm gonna be a skeptic for life. I'd believe in scalp sex or neck sex before I believe in anal sex 😆

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (22 children)

Have you tried it yourself? It’s not like believing in the Easter Bunny. Your rationale around it is odd. It’s not like biting a stick while someone digs shrapnel out of a wound, then being happy when it stops.

Having your scalp touched and your neck touched is very stimulating as well. Lol

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (21 children)

Having your scalp touched and your neck touched is very stimulating as well. Lol

Yeah, that's why I'd be able to believe those. Those are actual erogenous zones. The butt hole... not so much. I haven't tried it and I don't intend to. I just think that for the women who like it, it's just in their heads and there isn't a physical g-spot in their butts or anything. Not that there's anything wrong with it being in their heads, a lot of pleasure is just psychological

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (20 children)

It’s not in their heads. That sounds insane

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (19 children)

haha it sounds insane but it's a real thing. Like SailorMoon just said, there's women who orgasm while performing oral without even touching themselves. Look up 'spontaneous orgasms'. I've had a few. I also remember Florasis mentioning something about her experiencing that too. btw there's multiple types of spontaneous orgasms. I'm not talking about that weird medical condition where someone can't stop orgasming lol

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

Yeah except they are not having spontaneous orgasms they are having sex where their bodies are being touched.lol.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

Yes but the orgasm is spontaneous because it's not coming from any physical sexual stimulation. Would you consider an orgasm that happens when someone taps you on the shoulder to be spontaneous? If so, then why wouldn't a woman's orgasm from having her butt penetrated also be considered spontaneous? Both happened despite a lack of (physical) sexual stimulation. Which is why I think it's just psychological

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (16 children)

Okay are you a virgin or a troll? Choose.

You’re starting to border on creepy with your fixation on other women’s sex lives, and all the fake orgasms you are sure they are having.

If you’re not a virgin or a troll, then my condolences. You can’t “think” experiences you haven’t had into some ultimate truth in your own mind and state it as if it has any validity to anyone apart from yourself.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

How am I fixated on other women's sex lives? I thought I was just talking about why the act of anal sex itself would not give women physical pleasure. It's common knowledge that the way to a woman's g-spot is not up her ass. I never said that the orgasms were fake so you must have misunderstood me. My point was that you can experience orgasms without sexual stimulation so orgasms during anal sex don't prove that it's sexually stimulating for women . Just research it if you think I'm making that up.

Edit: I realize I won't get a reply to this. There was no need to get defensive. I don't care about your sex life and I wasn't saying that you can't enjoy anal sex. I was pointing out that women don't have prostrates so the pleasure/orgasms experienced during anal sex for women are psychological. I don't see what's offensive about that. Sexual pleasure has a psychological aspect and in scenarios where actual sexual organs/ erogenous zones are not being stimulated, it's that psychological side that causes the orgasm. Like SailorMoon2020 said:

The brain is the biggest sex organ. Kinks and fetishes fall under this I'm sure, if not neurology. When you're with someone you love wholeheartedly a lot of things can feel good without much of an explaination.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

“ I was pointing out that women don't have prostrates so the pleasure/orgasms experienced during anal sex for women are psychological.” Women don’t have prostates, but the rest of this is completely your opinion that you are stating as fact. I’m not the biggest fan of anal, personally, I could take it or leave it, but it definitely was not all in my head when it was enjoyable.

For someone who has never done something, you certainly are sure of yourself. I was honestly thinking you either have very little sexual experience or you were simply trolling, that’s how strange your argument sounds about a thing you have never experienced.

[–]yousaythosethings 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes, I'm reviving an old thread to comment on this of all things, but I stumbled upon your comment and wanted to respond to you because you're skeptical and your comments are dismissive. I like anal stimulation sometimes. I have to be in the right mood for it and I go through long periods where I'm not interested in it, but when I am I really am, and it can absolutely amplify/result in orgasms when built on top of (whether simultaneously or following) clitoral stimulation. And it has absolutely nothing to do with the alleviation of pain. That's a weird take. It just feels good. That's all there is too it. A lot of different things feel good to different people.

Now do I like how anal sex is pushed on young girls these days and that men think it's totally normal to expect that? No, absolutely not. I don't specifically encourage anyone to do it. People can make that decision on their own by knowing their own bodies.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was joking about that alleviation of pain bit 😁

Edit: I know some people like anal, that's not what I was arguing. My point was that it's not the anal penetration itself that feels good and the person I was talking to even agreed that it takes stimulation of "other stuff" around the pelvic region for it to feel good. I just think she didn't realize that she was agreeing. She thought I was saying anal sex can't be pleasurable, which wasn't the case.