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[–]Chocolatepudding 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

'Our sexual chemistry is better with each other than either one of us have ever had with anyone else. All very natural and easy. I think he actually much prefers sex with me because no prep or douching required. Just all very easy and natural'

Woah homophobic!!!! Jeez. Thread continues in a similar vein

However I have a question - what do you make of men like the one described here? Lifelong gay man in the usual sense. Meets a transman and gets into a relationship with him (her). .... Now I'm not one to police anyone's language or descriptors that they choose for themselves. If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him. Do you think they're at least bisexual? But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense? Does it remind anyone of gay men getting married to women to avoid their homosexuality? But these are men who already have relationships with other men. Doesn't seem to make much sense

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him.

I am. I got into an argument with a gay guy insisting he was gay. He identified as gay. But he loved vagina, occasionally. I tried to say that would make you not a homosexual but bisexual but he wasn't buying it.

But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense?

I can't answer that as I am not bi, but my understanding is that they sometimes date only one sex for awhile then switch...but I don't think this is that. Bisexual is a the spectrum part of human sexuality, so someone could be all the way on the gay side of it but not be a homosexual.

But my sexuality was very clear for me so I don't get these guys who decide secondary sex characteristics are good enough.